The ring is a favorite decoration for both men and women. The latter are especially partial to them. Worn on the ring finger, it has long been considered a symbol of marriage, love and fidelity. As you know, to legitimize marital relations, newlyweds exchange rings in a church or registry office.
It happens that years later a woman decides to try on her husband’s wedding ring. This need may arise for various reasons . For example, both spouses gained weight and the rings became small for both. Saving the family budget, a new piece of jewelry is purchased for the head of the family, and his ring goes to his wife “by inheritance.” Often widows wear his ring in memory of their deceased husband. At the same time, many wonder whether they are doing the right thing and whether it is dangerous.
The view of psychics
Unlike people of science, magicians, sorcerers, shamans, “responsible” for subtle matters, know for sure that every person has a biofield - their own unique energy, which tends to accumulate in metal, especially gold, and affects the structure of the stone. Once on the hand of another person, jewelry can have both a creative and destructive effect . If the husband is a kind, decent, open person and sincerely loves his wife, she can wear his engagement ring without fear. In this case, the ring will be a powerful amulet.
What to do if your wedding ring is lost?
If one of the spouses loses a wedding ring, and men are more likely to suffer from this, then one of the popular signs says that this either means a major quarrel or even a divorce or a break in the relationship.
You shouldn't blindly believe this.
I know many families in which they lost their wedding rings, but at the same time the spouses continued to love each other tenderly and devotedly. Therefore, if you lose your rings, you should either contact a jeweler and have a pair ring made, or, best of all, change the rings for both spouses.
And on the other hand, the discovery of someone else's wedding ring has always been regarded as a very happy sign, a promise given from above for a happy married life.
Church opinion
The clergy categorically do not approve of discussions about good or bad energy, about its accumulation in objects and, in general, about everything related to extrasensory perception. Therefore, they see nothing wrong with wearing other people’s things, including jewelry (with the exception of a cross) . It is also perfectly acceptable to donate it to charity.
Attention! You can trust your intuition and wear the jewelry of your beloved spouse, but vigilance will not hurt. Having decorated yourself with its ring, observe your well-being and behavior for a while. If nothing has changed or improved, you can rest assured. If you feel something is wrong, remove the jewelry immediately!
Why you can't choose someone else's engagement ring
For a long time, people believed that wedding rings were special magical attributes that were symbols of love, family and harmonious marriage. Such decorations were treated with great care. Therefore, the loss of a ring or its breakage was perceived as a very bad sign.
But is it possible to wear other people's wedding rings? Not every newlywed today can afford to buy new jewelry. Therefore, they can take advantage of gifts from distant relatives purchased at a pawn shop at a lower price.
Practitioners do not recommend using such jewelry. A pawn shop doesn’t just hand over a ring, especially an engagement ring. The situation itself suggests that the person who sold the attribute was in an extremely deplorable situation or was trying with all his might to get rid of the decoration.
Perhaps it reminded him of some sad events. Accordingly, this attribute may carry negative or simply alien energy, which should not be transferred into your new married life.
It is undesirable to use jewelry donated by distant relatives (if they previously belonged to them), since these attributes also contain the energy of strangers.
Refrain from using (as engagement rings) rings you found on the street or given by strangers.
Psychics claim that such objects may not only be filled with someone else’s energy, but they may also be subject to a negative program, damage or the evil eye. And if you use these decorations, then negativity will fall on your young family.
In what cases should this not be done?
It is strongly recommended not to wear a person's ring:
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- often experiencing and showing negative emotions (anger, dissatisfaction, jealousy, pessimism, etc.);
- suffering from physical and mental illnesses. They can be transmitted from one spouse to another through decoration;
- possessing extrasensory perception, especially in the field of black magic. This is the most dangerous for the life and health of ordinary people. On the contrary, if a wife is close to this world and has the appropriate abilities, jewelry can greatly enhance her magical gift.
Also, do not take risks and wear jewelry made of metal and stones that do not match your zodiac sign.
Wedding rings before the wedding
It turns out that there are a number of signs that dictate some rules even before a happy couple enters into a family union.
When choosing an engagement ring, one of the main questions that arises on the eve of the wedding is whether the jewelry can be taken from your close relatives or whether it must be new.
There are no clear signs on this score: among some nationalities, the transfer of family attribute from parents to children is the norm, while others believe that jewelry has the ability to accumulate the energy of the person who wore it, and therefore it is strictly forbidden to reuse it even after melting down.
You must purchase wedding rings at the same time and in the same store. It is believed that in this case the products have a magical connection with each other, which after the wedding should be passed on to the newlyweds. Jewelry must be the same in shape, made only of gold and not have any inscriptions, precious stones or engravings. This performance symbolizes a smooth and prosperous family life.
Superstitions you need to know about
- A corrugated ring promises a “rough” life with obstacles.
- Before putting on your spouse’s ring, it is recommended to consecrate it in church or perform a purification ceremony.
- The ring of the deceased should be kept at home, next to the icon. In some cases, you can wear it on a chain as a pendant.
- It is better not to wear the ring of the deceased within forty days after his death. People with paranormal abilities claim that this can keep the newly deceased in the world of the living longer than necessary , and will prevent his soul from passing on to another world.
All people are different, so are situations in life. You can listen to the advice of psychics, astrologers, clergy, or you can rely solely on your own feelings. If your relationship with your husband was (and continues to be) warm and cloudless, he loves you madly and continues to “blow away specks of dust,” you may well try on his wedding ring .
But first, make sure that the product suits your horoscope - you can’t fool science. If the stars are favorable to you and your soul “lies” with the item, wear it with pleasure. Sincerely believe that this is your talisman, your protection, your amulet. So it will be.
The main reasons for refusing to wear an accessory
There are many circumstances due to which spouses still remove their rings. One of the most unpleasant is that a husband or wife has an affair and does not show his mistress or lover that they are married. However, other situations may also be the reasons, which do not at all mean that married life has come to an end.
Here's why women don't wear a ring:
- I didn’t like it because of the changed taste, I was just tired of it, I wanted something new.
- Due to professional activities. Masseuses and catering workers have to remove the jewelry.
- The ring also gets in the way when doing household chores, and then they forget to put it on.
- Doesn't fit anymore.
- Doesn't go well with the outfit.
- The spouse is afraid of losing or damaging it if the product is expensive.
For men, everything is simpler. The husband usually does not wear a wedding ring for the following reasons:
- I just don't like it.
- The decoration is inconvenient, and for male representatives its beauty is not so important.
- Cannot be worn due to the nature of the profession.
- The ring is lost.
For this reason, it is advised to find out why the spouse took off the jewelry, and not to quarrel. Otherwise, a negative sign will definitely work.
Is it possible for a woman to wear her wedding ring and her husband’s ring?
Dropping the wedding ring before putting it on your finger means separation. If this happens, thread a thread through the ring, which should be prepared in advance by witnesses. She will absorb bad omens.
Dear jackdaws, tell me, is it possible for a husband and wife to have different wedding rings? My husband wants silver, but I want gold - is this possible? Or another example - let’s say he has a signet, and I have a regular wedding band.
Superstitious brides usually put the engagement ring in a box and don't wear it after the wedding ceremony. But what if the bride is superstitious, but she really wants to wear jewelry?
These are the wires through which the energy of life, the energy of love, flows. We are connected by invisible bonds with those who are dear and close to us. With those we love, it doesn’t matter what kind of love we are talking about.
The first wedding rings were simple ropes or strings exchanged between a man and a woman.
Is it possible to wear my husband's wedding band?
You can use your parents' wedding rings, but only if their marriage was truly happy and long-lasting.
Wish each other happiness, and keep what belongs to you. Don't do bad things, even if they did the same to you.
He deeply does not understand why a woman gets mad and attacks with demands to get married - after all, in fact, everything is already there.
The main symbol of a wedding and the beginning of a new family life is rings. The tradition of exchanging them appeared a long time ago, as a sign of the strength and inviolability of the union. But some spouses do not wear them, taking them off after the ceremony. What do signs and superstitions say about this, why is it absolutely forbidden to take off your wedding ring and what are the dangers of this?
Which hand to wear
And let's start with the question that comes up most often among those who are preparing for an important and solemn event or are simply interested in this question for the future: “On which hand do they wear a wedding ring in Russia?”
As you know, Orthodox Christians usually wear a wedding ring on the ring finger of the right hand. It is difficult to say why this happened this way, since this tradition came a long time ago and was firmly rooted in the consciousness of Christians. And yet there is a legend about why in some countries it is worn on the ring finger of the left hand. And although this fact is quite skeptical, it also has a right to exist.
This legend came from Ancient Egypt, where it was customary to wear wedding bands in this way. And this was explained by the fact that the left hand is closer to the heart. And the Egyptians, having studied human anatomy, came to the conclusion that it was from the ring finger on the left hand that a thin nerve extends to the heart. This was the only proven fact that was discovered at that time.
In Russia, two rings were originally worn:
- the first ring is an engagement ring: it was presented to the girl at the time of marriage proposal, and then accepted or rejected by her; Therefore, the same ring was used in church wedding ceremonies;
- the second is the wedding one, the one that the already married woman wore along with her engagement ring.
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This tradition has taken root in Russia only partially. The wedding ring is worn on the ring finger, but on the right hand, since the fact that it is the finger of the left hand that is closer to the heart artery has not been scientifically proven and is of no particular importance.
This is why the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger. But, besides this, there is a whole series of questions that relate to the rules for this ritual and its further history.
Why can't you wear your husband's wedding ring?
Support ring. Returning to superstitions, let us remember: you cannot wear any rings on the same finger as your wedding finger, the exception (and even then controversial) is the wedding ring. But if you think logically, what’s wrong with that?
And under this case, they actively press the man on the topic “let’s get married!” On the other side of this curious situation is a man who has chosen a woman for himself, lives with her, and has no intention of leaving or cheating.
Conduct a small experiment that proves that it is the ring fingers that are responsible for the union of two lovers who should be inseparable in marriage. Connect the fingers of both palms so that the middle fingers, symbolizing yourself, are bent inward. Now try to move your fingers away from each other in pairs.
The Egyptians began to make a round ring from a strip of gold, which symbolizes eternal fidelity and love. They put the ring on the middle finger of their left hand. It was believed that it was through this finger that a vein passed directly to the heart. The Egyptians firmly believed that if you put a ring on the middle finger of your left hand, you could keep love in each other's hearts for a lifetime.
But, nevertheless, people pay attention to signs about wedding rings, since a wedding is not an ordinary event, and wedding rings are a symbol of marriage. In some cases, wedding rings also play the role of wedding rings. In general, it is customary for the groom to buy wedding rings.
Someone says that when a husband or wife takes off a ring, he is subconsciously ready to find a new partner. They haven’t admitted it yet, but by getting rid of the accessory, they unconsciously let others know that they are in the search stage.
But with rings belonging to spouses who happily celebrated their silver or even golden anniversary, everything is not so simple.
If your family has questions about this topic, don’t panic. We just need to discuss everything; the reasons are probably quite objective.
That is, both illness and accident seem to be imprinted on the ring and inevitably affect the new owner, worsening his health and well-being.
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