Who deserves to be the first invited
And now, when everything is already planned and almost ready for the holiday, you and your loved one need to carefully think about who to inform first about your decision and invite to the wedding. 6tu4ka.ru wants to offer you the following sequence:
- Your children from your first marriage , if there are any of course. After all, now they will be the ones who will have to live with the new parent (if they have to, of course), and their mental situation greatly depends on how they learn and perceive this news.
- Like it or not, it’s worth informing your ex-spouse . So that later there are no unnecessary omissions that because of your new passion, you began to pay less attention to his children. But you don’t have to invite him to your second wedding at all.
- And finally, your parents . After all, they are far from the last people in your life, and they probably deserve to be among the first to know about this decision.
Wedding anniversary script “Paper Wedding”
After two years of marriage, the couple celebrates a paper wedding. print version
HOST : Together we march bravely. The second anniversary is paper! Very fragile paper, But the family is full of courage - Patience and work always live in it Day after day! And the bride is a craftswoman, she looks prettier like a bird of paradise, and our groom matches her; I want to give them my word! Let them declare their love, Like nightingales in the spring! Groom: I love only you and call you beautiful! I see your lovely appearance both in dreams and in reality! I only praise your pickles, pies, pancakes, borscht. You can't find a better housewife, At least search the area! You are the only one I admire and I adore you! On this anniversary, I give you a paper skirt! (The groom puts a paper skirt on the bride.) BRIDE: My husband, for you, as before, Feelings are very hot! I’m ready to bake cakes and rolls for you! When you are near, there is a holiday in my heart, a sea of happiness and love! Day and night of your beloved Call me again and again! I appreciate your efforts - You are undoubtedly great! I want to give a shirt on this holiday, finally! (The bride dresses the groom in a shirt glued together from pieces of colored paper.) HOST: Bitter! It's bitter, young people! (to the guests:) Let's count together out loud We drawlingly and slowly Young people immediately until two! (The heroes of the occasion kiss, and the guests at this time slowly count from one to two, since the spouses have been married for 2 years.) HOST: Come on, dear guests, stand in two columns! “Corridor of Great Happiness” Appear immediately to the anniversaries! (The guests form a “corridor of happiness”. The bride and groom walk along it to the sounds of Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March”. At the end of the “corridor”, the newlyweds are met by the mother-in-law with a tray on which there are 2 glasses of champagne.) HOST: Let the champagne flow like a river on this glorious anniversary ! We need to congratulate the young people from the bottom of our hearts as soon as possible! (The spouses with wine glasses go around all the guests and clink glasses with each of them. The guests congratulate the heroes of the day and present them with paper products.) HOST: The young people will perform a wonderful and charming waltz for us! Let it serve as a gift for the guests who are here now! (The paper newlyweds waltz to the applause of the guests.) HOST: And now let’s all sit down at the table! What’s not on the table! The cake will be delicious. Definitely for dessert! (During the festive feast, all kinds of entertainment are held.) HOST: On paper, as you know, the poet wrote about love, Lines of sensual excitement, releasing them into the light! And the paper patiently took care of these lines! There is a paper game for kind and gentle spouses!
What is customary to celebrate?
Any holiday, especially one so important for a young family, always requires a lot of strength and energy. But the most important thing is also a considerable investment. Your second wedding also depends on your capabilities, especially since you now bear all the expenses only on yourself.
And there will be a lot of them. In addition to the banquet, a lot of money will be spent on photography and videography, music and toastmaster. And no less expensive will be the choice of a dress for a wedding and its purchase.
You can distribute the costs equally with your future spouse, or he can take on all financial issues himself. The main thing is not to demand money from your parents, unless they offer it themselves.
Outfit for the second wedding day
The good thing about the second day of the wedding celebration is that you don’t have to wear a tight suit, but you can choose simpler clothes. For example, young spouses can order matching T-shirts for the 2nd wedding day.
The appearance of the newlyweds depends on where the celebration is planned
Couples T-shirts often use the words "husband" and "wife" or something similar. You can also depict a joint photograph or arrows indicating that the newlyweds belong to each other.
What should a bride wear to her wedding on the second day? If the celebration is planned in a restaurant or cafe, you can choose a light dress in white or any other light color . It should be comfortable and not very formal. The light dress is suitable for a holiday at home or outdoors. If the choice fell on paired T-shirts, then you can wear trousers or a skirt.
Photos of T-shirts for the second wedding day
What should the groom wear? It is recommended to wear light trousers and a shirt without a tie . Don't wear jeans. It's casual wear after all.
When organizing a themed party, you should wear something appropriate to the theme, but preferably also paired. Usually combinations are selected that match the shades, or small details indicating the heroes of the occasion - ribbons, badges, etc.
How to celebrate a second wedding?
You shouldn’t repeat even the most interesting ideas from your first wedding, choose the same hall, even if it’s the most luxurious in your city, and go on your honeymoon to the same place you went to the first time. You need to completely forget about everything that happened. Now you have a new life, and everything should be new.
And you and your current fiancé are no longer that young, carefree couple. Now, instead of your parents, you decide how, where and, most importantly, what to spend your second wedding on. And here is your imagination and possibilities.
As for the celebration itself, here you need to take into account each other’s wishes.
If this is the second wedding for both of you , you can limit yourself to a modest option. This way you will save both money and effort. Better spend this time with your loved ones. After all, the honeymoon will fly by quickly, and sometimes it can be very difficult to enjoy each other in everyday life.
If this event is the first time in your beloved’s life and your soul requires a holiday, do not refuse it and make your second desired wedding bright and unforgettable. Realize all the ideas that you might have even wanted to have at your last wedding.
Organize your wedding in some thematic genre, hold a mini-performance. I think your guests, and you yourself, will be very delighted.
If you want, throw a grand party, or, on the contrary, invite only your dearest and closest people. And if your life experience tells you that this is completely unnecessary, after the registry office, immediately rush off on a romantic trip. The main thing is that from all these procedures you have only the brightest and warmest memories for the rest of your life.
Second marriage, how to celebrate?
A wedding ceremony is the logical conclusion of an unofficial relationship between two lovers. But married life is not always long and happy, and love is eternal. After the breakup of a marriage, the perception of the family and attitude towards marriage changes dramatically. And if it happens that a person finds his soulmate again, then the decision to tie the knot for the second time is more deliberate, wise and meaningful, and not made on emotions against the backdrop of strong feelings.
Statistically, the second marriage is much stronger than the first. After all, all the necessary lessons have already been learned and the right conclusions have been drawn. Now you are a more mature person, you care less about the opinions of others, you have found yourself in life, you understand yourself and listen to your desires, you have become professionally fulfilled and are more financially independent. This is why your second wedding ceremony should be completely different from your first. Now it is not at all necessary that the entire set of traditional rituals be present at the celebration, and you repay your debt to your relatives, some of whom you have never even seen. The second wedding will be a reflection of your real ideas about the holiday of the union of two loving hearts.
In most cases, remarriage occurs at a more mature age, after 30 years. Listen to what your inner voice says: maybe you want to have an original wedding abroad, for example in the Dominican Republic, on a yacht or in some historical place? Or maybe you want to organize a celebration in a quiet family atmosphere, have a picnic with your closest people, just sign at the registry office and have dinner together in a romantic place. This time it is very important to realize your unfulfilled dreams during your first wedding. The main thing is to agree with your chosen one or chosen one. After all, the celebration of the re-union is no longer carried out at the expense of the parents. The wedding budget now consists of the income of the bride and groom.
Since more mature couples are often busy working or raising children, it is best in this case to entrust the organization of the event to a specialized agency that will take care of all the pre-holiday chores. The second wedding ceremony differs from the first in that now you know the true price of things and give preference not to quantity, but to quality: you choose an exotic place for the celebration, exquisite decoration of the banquet hall, unusual dishes, high-quality alcoholic drinks, professional video and photography.
Features of the second act of marriage
- A message about a pleasant event. Since the second ceremony is most often more modest and takes less time, effort and money for preparation than the first celebration, engagement notices and wedding invitations are generally short and sent shortly before the appointed date.
- Outfits. Your second original wedding does not provide any special restrictions in choosing an outfit for the bride and a suit for the groom. But if a man can simply be guided by his taste and the format of the holiday, then a woman has an excellent chance to appear in exactly the image that she has dreamed of in recent years. But it is better to abandon the traditional, white wedding dress in favor of a cocktail or evening dress. A light-colored suit would also work. Choose the style, color and accessories that you like and suit the chosen image. Since a veil is a symbol of innocence, it, like a white dress, has no place at a second wedding. You can decorate your hair with a tiara, hat or fresh flowers. The main thing is that the bride and groom look great, show their individual style and match the format of the wedding.
- Bouquet. If you are getting married for the second time, it is better to give up the flower arrangement in your hands. Your original wedding will be unforgettable even without this. But you can attach a boutonniere to the groom's suit.
- Presents. If a girl has already been married once, then she should not expect gifts. But most guests cannot afford to come to the banquet empty-handed and they stock up on at least modest gifts.
- Witnesses. It is customary for those entering into a second marriage to have one accompanying person. Witnesses may be the only guests at the ceremony.
- Children. Their presence at the wedding is inevitable, since most remarriages occur when one or both of the couple has a child. The mission of children at the celebration is also important: they can bring wedding rings to the crown, walk ahead of lovers, showering the carpet with rose petals, or carry the hem of the bride’s dress. For the little guests of the event, you can set a separate table and invite animators so that the children don’t get bored while the adults have fun.
- Wedding. The Orthodox Church does not provide for divorce. Therefore, if you initiated the dissolution of your first marriage, be sure to confess and fulfill a number of obligations that the priest will assign to you. This procedure is called penance and, according to canon law, it is valid for a certain period. After all the instructions have been fulfilled by you, and you have a desire to get married again with a new chosen one, the church can grant you such a right. Sometimes she sanctifies even the third legal union. But in this case, the period of imposition of penance increases significantly.
If the lovers have never been married before, but this time they decided to consecrate their marriage, then the clergyman will hold explanatory conversations with them, telling them about the responsibility and importance of such a step. He will teach you the necessary prayers, introduce you to certain church sacraments, and tell you how to maintain the integrity of the church union, having lived together for many years and sharing not only the good, but also the bad.
Honeymoon . Have a great time! The money saved on a modest wedding, as well as the money donated by guests, can be spent on the most unforgettable, romantic and interesting trip of your life.
Marina Franchuk
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Romantic trip
The only thing that can be borrowed from the first wedding, and from all weddings in general, is a romantic honeymoon . And this is perhaps the most long-awaited time of all newlyweds.
Be very careful about this issue. Ask where your current husband would like to go. Try to choose places that are not similar to the journey from your first wedding. Remember - this is your golden time, and nothing should overshadow it.
But the most important thing, and I think you are already convinced of this, is not even the 2nd wedding itself and its holding. The most important thing is to create a good family in which peace, tranquility and comfort would always reign. And with such a mood, you will definitely live to see your golden wedding, but in the meantime, ADVICE TO YOU YES LOVE!
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