In all countries there are different wedding traditions, customs, rituals and signs associated with them, some of them, due to various historical reasons, are similar among many peoples. Although Russia cannot boast of special adherence to and observance of all wedding traditions and rituals, nevertheless, some customs of the matchmaking and marriage ceremony are familiar to many married couples firsthand. But every girl knows that catching the bride’s bouquet at a wedding is considered a very good omen, although, perhaps, she does not fully realize its significance.
Signs about the bride's bouquet
Today it is difficult to imagine the image of a newlywed without a bridal bouquet.
The tradition of giving or throwing wedding flowers to unmarried girls has long roots. Brides of Ancient Rus' received a bouquet collected by the groom, or wove it themselves. At the end of the festivities, girlfriends who wanted to get married stood in a round dance around the bride, danced and sang. When the round dance stopped, the bride handed her flowers to the one closest to her.
In the West, a wedding dress was considered a symbol of happiness and joy, so many tried to tear off at least a piece from it. To save the wedding dress from the messengers of good luck, they came up with the custom of throwing flowers to the ladies.
There was an opinion that the bride's flowers were intended not only to decorate the appearance of the newlywed, but also were able to protect the newlyweds from evil forces. Many girls still believe in this sign and perceive a wedding flower arrangement as a talisman. What other signs are there associated with the bride’s bouquet?
- If I dropped it, I missed out on happiness . When accepting flowers from the groom, the bride should carefully hold them in her hands. It is considered a bad sign if they accidentally fall out of your hands, because they are associated with the happiness and well-being of the couple. By dropping them, the bride seems to be missing out on family happiness;
- Only the bride holds flowers . According to custom, the newlywed should not part with him all day, but there are situations when flowers simply need to be given to someone for a while.
If you caught a bouquet at a wedding
The most well-known and beloved belief is that an unmarried girl who catches a newlywed’s bouquet will soon become a bride herself . There are some variations in the interpretation of this sign.
When congratulating the owner of the bridal bouquet, they usually predict that she will either simply become the next bride or will get married in the very near future. It happens that no one manages to catch a bunch of flowers.
If she falls at the feet of the bride, then we should expect the wedding of one of her close relatives.
The lucky one who catches the flowers keeps them and takes them home. Further options for action may be different:
- Some people store it until they wither (it is believed that keeping dried flowers indoors is unlucky);
- You can do with them as you wish, for example, float them down the river, leave them on a bench in a park or garden, take them to a field;
- Someone is trying to dry the entire bouquet and preserve it until the marriage prediction is fulfilled;
- It is possible to dry individual flowers or twigs and use them as bookmarks.
Color matters
The color scheme in which the bride's bouquet is composed can also predict what awaits the newlyweds in family life. Therefore, when choosing shades, you should be very attentive to their meanings.
- Whites are associated with innocence, sincerity in relationships;
- Red symbolizes passionate love;
- Pink – feelings of love and lightness;
- Orange - happiness;
- Blue flowers are identified with fidelity;
- Yellow is interpreted ambiguously. On the one hand, like betrayal, on the other - warmth and joy.
What flowers should I use to make a bouquet?
You also need to think carefully about the floral filling, because each one has a special meaning. We will present the meanings of the most popular ones to make it easier to navigate what to use to create a composition.
- Roses represent love in its various manifestations;
- Orchids mean sophistication, purity; fertility, beauty;
- Lilies - the innocence of youth, gratitude, hope;
- Chrysanthemums - sincerity, friendship, loyalty;
- Tulips - pure love, happiness;
- Peonies - good luck, happiness in marriage;
- Hydrangea – mutual understanding, harmony in the family.
To quit or not?
Despite the existing tradition of throwing a wedding bouquet, many brides doubt whether it is worth throwing it. After all, another sign (not letting flowers out of your hands) completely contradicts it. Giving a bouquet, a symbol of family happiness, to a friend essentially means giving your happiness to her.
The solution to this problem was the appearance of a duplicate bouquet, similar to the original, which the newlywed throws to her unmarried guests. There is no need to explain which bouquet to throw during the event and which to keep for yourself.
From the history of the appearance of signs
Traditionally, the bride must throw her bouquet during the wedding celebration and all the girls present at the celebration strive not to miss this moment and become the happy owner of the bride's bouquet. Nowadays, few people think about how this sign appeared, and yet the history of its occurrence is in no way connected with an imminent marriage.
In the old days in Rus', girls getting married spent years hand-sewing their wedding dresses, decorating them with intricate embroidery. There was a belief that touching a newlywed’s dress promised great luck, and tearing a piece from it meant good luck. Protecting her dress from danger, the bride tried to divert attention from herself by throwing a wedding bouquet into the crowd.
The sign, which promised great luck to the one who managed to catch the bride’s wedding bouquet, did not always exist in this form. At first, the bride did not throw the bouquet, but handed it to one of her girlfriends, being in the center of the round dance that the girls led. Moreover, her eyes had to be closed, and she handed over the bouquet at random. This action meant that the newlywed, along with the bouquet, was giving the lucky girl a piece of the magic of the wedding, and the girl would soon find her happiness and get married.
About artificial flowers
Modern compositions made from artificial flowers can be difficult to distinguish from real ones. Undoubtedly, such flowers solve many problems. If you are not bothered by prejudices about non-living plants and you want the friend who caught the bouquet not to worry about how to preserve living flowers after the event, then ordering a composition from artificial ones will be the best solution.
There is a superstition that the use of inanimate plants promises the same artificiality and falsehood in the relations of the future family.
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People have come up with a great many superstitions that dictate what a bouquet should be like. Should we believe in them and be afraid of them? If you are suspicious and superstitious, then for your own peace of mind you can follow the basic traditions. But remember that your destiny is only in your hands!
What to do with the bride's bouquet after the wedding?
The bride's bouquet is an indispensable attribute of the wedding celebration, as is the groom's boutonniere. Many brides wonder about the fate of their bouquet after the wedding. There are many signs associated with this wedding day attribute. the man should buy the bouquet , but not necessarily the groom himself (he has a lot of worries before the ceremony, so his father or brother can perform this function); any flowers are selected, except for red carnations, which carry political or tragic, mourning overtones (it is better to give preference to buds of delicate shades, matching the bride’s snow-white dress). Non-superstitious brides do not think about signs and customs, but still want to keep their bouquet, unless, of course, they gave it to an unmarried guest at the wedding. Below we will tell you about all the possible options for the wedding bouquet.
How to throw a bridal bouquet?
The tradition of throwing a bouquet to the bride came to us from ancient times, but remains relevant to this day.
This innocent entertainment, which today determines the next bride, used to have another meaning: flowers thrown by the newlywed were considered a symbol of happiness and good luck . That is why the guests were eager to get them.
What does this custom look like now? At what point does this happen at a wedding? What should you consider to avoid comical and absurd situations?
Signs and traditions about the bride's bouquet
The tradition of throwing a bouquet to friends after the end of the celebration, symbolizing the end of a girl’s life and the beginning of a married life, does not imply the use of the exact flower arrangement that adorned the bride’s outfit during the ceremony. You can prepare a duplicate in advance, similar to the original or made from artificial materials. And the one that the groom gives to his beloved before the start of the holiday is too precious to be easily parted with. Any girl would prefer to keep it as a keepsake.
To the questions of what to do with the bride’s bouquet after the wedding, where to put the wedding bouquet, there are many answers, sometimes mutually exclusive. Some people think that they should be thrown away so as not to see how beautiful fresh flowers fade.
According to Feng Shui, keeping dry plants in your home is a bad omen.
Others believe that it is wrong to throw away anything related to a family’s birthday or give it to someone else. There are several possible options:
- Save the wedding bouquet after the wedding as a keepsake. It will, of course, dry out, but placed in a vase it will decorate the interior in an original way and will remind you of a wonderful day.
A properly dried bouquet will decorate the interior
- Dry individual flowers and leaves under pressure as for a herbarium, for example in a thick book. After a few weeks, stick the dried elements onto a piece of paper or fabric, forming a colorful composition. Frame it in a beautiful frame and hang it on the wall.
Panel from a wedding bouquet
- Must be stored in a canvas bag. And when your children grow up and walk down the aisle, you need to shower them with flower petals from the bouquet from your parents’ wedding.
- Burn ritually on your wedding anniversary, thus getting rid of quarrels and misunderstandings during the first year of marriage.
- Give to the river. Water is the source of life, a symbol of femininity, fluidity, purity. Throw flowers into the river , tell her about your desires, ask for women's happiness.
- Place the petals from the wedding bouquet under the mattress. They say that in this case the husband will be faithful and will never leave his family.
- Dry the flowers and then make a decorative candle. It will decorate your home. And you can light it at family celebrations.
Decorative flower candle
- An interesting way to preserve a bouquet for many years is preservation with glycerin . It is suitable for flowers with dense leaves. One part of glycerin is mixed with two parts of hot water, the stems from below are split and placed in the mixture for 2-3 weeks. Every day they are trimmed one centimeter. After a week, the glycerin mixture is refreshed. The flowers are ready when they are saturated and glossy. If the bouquet is small, then it is possible to preserve the whole bouquet in a beautiful glass container.
Preserving a bouquet in a glycerin mixture
How to dry a bride's bouquet after the wedding
Have you ever opened an old book and suddenly discovered a dried leaf or flower between the pages? Maybe it's a modest gift from a loved one, or maybe it was snatched during your first date. It lay between the pages for many years and still retains tender memories and even the smells of that day.
If you decide to keep a wedding bouquet as a souvenir so that after many years it will refresh the memory of an unforgettable day, then you need to dry it properly so that the leaves and petals do not lose their shape and color. Drying can be volumetric or flat; there are many technologies:
Proper drying of flowers
- The easiest way to dry roses is to hang them upside down and leave them in that position until they dry completely.
- For decorative panels and paintings, flowers are dried by being placed in a thick book between sheets of clean paper or napkins.
- For delicate inflorescences, drying in sand or semolina is suitable. After placing the plant in a container, you must carefully cover all the petals with sand or grain and do not dig them up for a month. Instead of sand, you can use silica gel - moisture-absorbing granules.
How to save a caught bouquet
To preserve the shape and appearance of the bouquet, it is also suggested to use ordinary hairspray, which was probably left over from the pre-wedding troubles of both the bride and the bridesmaid who caught the flowers. If you take glitter or colored varnish, you will get an elegant and original interior decoration.
If you want to keep flowers as a keepsake, but without them taking up much space, remove the stems of the flowers and dry only the buds. After they dry, you can put them in a box or even in a transparent vase, which with such unusual filling will completely decorate the interior.
There is a way to dry buds in bulk desiccants - borax, perlite, silica gel. With this drying, the color of the plants becomes more intense, and the petals do not wrinkle.
If your bouquet consists of fragrant herbs and flowers, you can make a sachet or fragrant pillow out of it. Then you can dry them without worrying about the shape, the main thing is that there is nothing unnecessary: herbs or flowers, whose smell is unfavorable for the room or can cause an allergic reaction.
And then, subsequently, organza sachets with satin ribbons, filled with leaves and petals, will not just become a reminder of a happy day, but will also perform a practical function: to scent a room, a wardrobe, a drawer with bed linen or a bathroom.
A lavender bouquet at a wedding in the Provencal style can be a wonderful find: original and fragrant, it will not only look stylish, but will also delight the young wife or her lucky friend for a very long time.
Is it possible to throw away a wedding bouquet?
There is no clear opinion. Some people think that it is necessary to get rid of the bouquet. But under no circumstances should you simply throw it in the trash. The following options are considered acceptable: traditionally throw it to your friends after the wedding, give it to the river or burn it. However, most brides do not want to part with a luxurious attribute, which is not cheap and valuable as a memory, and they make attempts to dry it and store it for as long as possible.
According to Slavic tradition, dry plants retain strength and can serve as a talisman. Since ancient times, bunches of dried herbs and flowers were hung in certain places throughout the hut, protecting the home from evil spirits and diseases. True, not just flowers were used, but magical amulets, they were collected at a certain time, dried in the air and changed every year.
The practice of organizing space, Feng Shui, which came from Asia, prohibits keeping dry plants in the house. It is believed that they concentrate the negative energy of dying and disrupt the free flow of energy in the house. However, Feng Shui makes an exception for bouquets that preserve the memory of some important event, such as a wedding. But the location of such a bouquet should not be a bedroom or living room. It is best to place it in the kitchen or bathroom.
Don't be upset if you couldn't keep the bouquet in its original form. It is already captured in its original form in photographs in the family album and in a video filmed at the ceremony. Don't be sad that the flowers have withered. The main thing is that your feelings for each other remain bright and fresh.
The girl caught the bride’s bouquet: what traditions and signs say
A wedding bouquet is one of the main elements of a bride’s image, with many signs and traditions associated with it. Although this is the 21st century, many people are sensitive to superstitions and try to follow all the rules associated with arranging and throwing a bouquet.
The tradition of throwing a bouquet appeared in Europe in the Middle Ages. It was believed that the newlywed's outfit had special magical properties and brought happiness. Each girl tried not just to touch the dress, but to tear off a piece of it for herself. Getting a piece of a wedding dress was considered great luck. The guests literally tore the newlywed's outfit into pieces. To distract their attention and preserve her festive dress, the bride threw a bouquet into the crowd.
The ritual with a wedding bouquet for the newlywed was also known in Ancient Rus', but it was different from the modern one. The groom himself collected flowers for his betrothed. And on the wedding day, the unmarried guests stood around the bride in a round dance, and the newlywed, with her eyes closed, randomly handed one of the girls the desired gift. The ritual was carefully observed by the men present. They looked at who was standing in the round dance, and this way they found out which of the girls they could send matchmakers to.
Our ancestors did not throw wedding flowers into the crowd, believing that the wedding attribute should be kept in the house of the newlyweds until it withers.
History of tradition
One of the most significant symbols at any wedding are flowers, and catching the bride’s bouquet at a wedding is a sign that has become the favorite for any free girl.
Since time immemorial, it has been a kind of sacred symbol at a wedding, which reflects the purity and purity of the bride. However, our ancestors did not abandon it, but rather took care of it. Instead, scraps of dress were used, which the bride threw over her shoulder to her bridesmaids so that they too would soon get married. Nowadays, a duplicate bouquet is often used at weddings.
Then the tradition changed and the dress was no longer torn into pieces. The bridesmaids instead danced around the bride, passing in a circle and thus charging with the magical energy of the sacred ritual. This pagan tradition is now almost lost.
According to tradition, the girl who caught the bouquet should keep it at home. You can throw it away only the day after your own wedding. Thus, she says goodbye to unmarried life and completely devotes herself to the groom.
The modern custom of throwing over the shoulder was introduced, according to historians, by the great Emperor of Russia Peter the Great. He borrowed this tradition from Western Europe during his well-known trip to Holland.
The wedding ritual was popular in Rus' and soon the sign that catching the bride’s bouquet was a great success became widespread even outside the state. Today, almost all countries that were once part of Russia still use the tradition to this day.
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The meaning of signs at a wedding
Every single girl dreams of catching the bride's bouquet. The bride not only throws the desired item to the guests, but first turns her back to them so that fate will decide who will be the lucky one. The friends standing in a row try to catch the bouquet by any means possible, because legend says that the girl who catches the flowers will soon get married.
But the concept of “soon” is interpreted differently by experts:
- someone says that the long-awaited event will happen in three years;
- according to another version, the lucky girl will receive a marriage proposal within a year;
- The most popular interpretation is that the friend who received the wedding bouquet will be the next to invite guests to her wedding.
After one of the friends has the bouquet, the bride approaches the lucky girl and wishes her happiness. It may happen that the bouquet flies to the side. In this case, it is believed that the guest to whom the accessory fell closer will be in for a pleasant surprise.
Some believe that flowers falling on the floor are a sign of an imminent wedding in the family on the part of the newlywed.
Signs
In addition to throwing the bouquet itself, there are other beliefs, signs and traditions that are associated with this ritual. You can diversify your wedding and observe them, especially for those who really believe in various sacraments and supernatural powers.
According to tradition, it is the groom who must prepare the bouquet, and with his own hands, and not entrust this task to the bride or her bridesmaids. It is advisable that he collect flowers in the field or in the forest. Of course, it would be better to see a luxurious bouquet. But there is no point in this if it is simply bought in a store. A bouquet collected with your own hands, with love and tenderness for your future wife, will have a much deeper meaning and serve as a symbol of devotion and love.
A long-standing sign says that the bouquet should always be in the hands of the bride or in her sight. Under no circumstances should you give a bouquet to strangers or evil people, as it is believed that bad energy is transferred through contact. The bouquet can be entrusted to the groom, mother or best friend. No one else. Here is more information about how to handle a bouquet during a celebration.
Another bad omen is that if the bride drops the bouquet, then the married life will be short or unhappy.
You can make two bouquets for a wedding: one for the bridesmaids and one for yourself. A copy is usually placed in the marital pillow in order to feel the aroma of celebration and fun at the wedding for some time. After it dries and stops smelling, it is used to make a composition in the form of a herbarium as a wedding souvenir, which is kept in the family in memory of a happy youth.
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Simply put, this means they agree to be together forever. Another option is this: on the anniversary day, a husband and wife go to any bridge over the river, take with them champagne and an old bouquet, which should be thrown from the bridge into the water and then drink a glass of champagne. It is believed that this will strengthen family ties. In fact, all the signs and beliefs that it is important to catch the bride’s bouquet at a wedding have a certain basis. This has to do with psychology.
What to do with the caught one?
Everyone decides for themselves what to do with the caught bunch of flowers. Some people believe that there is no need to keep dry plants in the house, so they simply throw out a wilted bouquet.
The second option is to release a bunch of flowers along a river, into a lake or into the sea, or simply leave them in a park on a bench, but this tradition is rarely used.
Most lucky women prefer to dry the trophy. According to legend, the dried bouquet should be kept in the house until the omen is fulfilled and the girl gets married.
If you dry the flowers in time, the bouquet will retain both its shape and appearance. The herbarium can remain in the house for as long as necessary. Some turn to florists for this, but you can ensure that wedding flowers do not lose their original appearance on your own.
How to dry it?
Drying flowers is not difficult at home. This process consists of several stages:
- It is necessary to make sure that there is no moisture on the bouquet and remove wilted elements;
- Separate flowers from leaves and greenery;
- Tie the third part of the flowers, which will be in the center of the composition, and then attach the remaining two parts with wire;
- Hang the bouquet in a dry, warm place with the buds down. Direct sunlight should be avoided to prevent the herbarium from fading;
- It is necessary to ensure that mold does not form on the petals;
- Leaves and greens are dried separately under newspaper in a well-ventilated area and then added to the composition;
- Dried flowers are very fragile. A special spray, which is sold in the floristry department, or regular hairspray will help make them stronger. It is applied to the bouquet before or after drying. The varnish will give the composition a beautiful shine;
- Small flowers are dried for 3 to 5 days. Large buds, for example, roses - more than 10 days.
Inheritance
In some families, the wedding bouquet becomes an heirloom. Mothers dry the flower arrangement to give it to their children before the wedding. Throughout the entire celebration, this attribute of the bride is not released from her hands and is treasured like the apple of her eye. It is allowed to entrust the bouquet only to the mother for a while.
Preserving a flower arrangement in its original form until children grow up is not easy. It is allowed to separate the buds into petals, dry them and store them in a linen bag.
It is interesting to know why dry petals are sprinkled on newlyweds who return to the house from the registry office. This custom promises mutual understanding and happiness in the newly-made family.
Modern traditions
Today, no wedding is complete without throwing the bride's bouquet. The ceremony is carried out according to certain rules. At the end of the party, the newlywed stands in the center of the hall, and behind her line up those who want to quickly receive a marriage proposal. The bride turns around her axis three times with her eyes closed and, uttering words of good wishes, throws a flower arrangement.
The bride can throw a bouquet to the guests, but then give the girl who caught the bouquet only one flower from the arrangement, and take the rest for herself.
In the West, they came up with an unusual ritual with a wedding symbol. One ribbon is tied to the bouquet, and the bride simply takes the ends of the rest in her hand. Unmarried friends choose the end of one of the ribbons and dance around the hero of the occasion to cheerful music, and then, at the sign of the leader, they pull the ribbons. The wedding symbol remains with one of the lucky ones. Many people believe that giving a wedding bouquet to a friend is sharing your happiness with her. Such a ritual will not bring good luck to either the newlyweds or the girlfriend. Those who fear the consequences, but want to carry out the tradition, are encouraged to replace the original composition with a duplicate. It is his bride who throws it to her friends. The wedding bouquet given by the groom remains in the couple's house as a family heirloom.
Some people prefer not to store their wedding attribute for a long time. On the wedding anniversary it is burned. A bright flame emanating from dry petals is a good omen for young spouses.
What should it be?
When choosing a bouquet for the bride, it is important not only to take into account that it matches the style and color of the newlywed’s dress. There are a number of signs associated with the selection of colors for a wedding symbol. According to legends, it is not recommended to use gladioli, callas and carnations. They can bring quarrels into the family. The same applies to fern, which is often included in the composition. Any plants with pointed leaves should be avoided, symbolizing quarrels and conflicts between spouses in the future.
It is considered a bad omen if the bride pricks her finger during the wedding, so it is better to trim the thorns from flowers in advance
The composition should look harmonious. The optimal shape is spherical or spherical. Multi-level bouquets with stems of different lengths are a symbol of a troubled family life.
It is not recommended to use artificial elements to create a wedding symbol. They promise betrayal. You can always find flowers that are suitable for any weather and will not lose their beauty during the celebration.
As for the number of flowers in the bouquet, it is recommended to take them as many as the bride’s age. If this number is even, then one flower is added to it. Many believe that quarrels and betrayals can bring flowers of dark shades. To create a wedding accessory, it is recommended to give preference to roses, peonies, tulips, orchids and hydrangeas in light shades. Some add herbal amulets that protect against the evil eye and envy: the top part of garlic, rosemary and basil.
Flowers for a wedding bouquet and superstitions
According to tradition, the groom chooses the bouquet for the bride. But in most cases, men don’t know anything about floristry. Therefore, it is better to prepare the young man in advance to determine the varieties and meanings of flowers, so that he can make the right choice and not disappoint the bride.
Rose, as a rule, is included in bouquets more often than other flowers. Red symbolizes desire and passion. Yellow – mutual understanding and friendship. A white rose signifies the purity of the bride and the noble intentions of the groom. Coral is a sign of passionate admiration.
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- Peony - the choice of romantic lovers - symbolizes trepidation and tenderness of feelings.
- Lilac is suitable for first dates.
- Lily of the valley demonstrates trust and special intimacy.
- Tulip - strong mutual feelings.
- Hydrangea - indifference and indifferent attitude.
- Jasmine – mystery, feminine charm and attraction.
- Orchid – grace, wise, harmonious feelings.
- Lily – purity, security and success.
- Dahlia – inconstancy and capriciousness.
- Hyacinth – fidelity, sincere love.
- Lavender is a symbol of decency, good relationships and nobility.
- Sunflower – trust, mutual respect.
- Freesia - suitable for a young bride, a symbol of trust.
- Callas are for the strong, determined and brave.
- Bell - agreement, obedience.
In addition to the colors themselves, their color scheme is important:
- red is a symbol of love, passionate desire;
- pink – sublime feelings, romance;
- white – purity;
- blue - eternal love;
- green - inspiration;
- yellow – family hearth, comfort and warmth;
- orange – happy future.
Two colors that are suitable in meaning are considered harmonious, for example, a white-red combination, yellow-blue, pink-light green. Correctly selected colors in the bride's bouquet are a symbol of family unity.
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Various manifestations of the color black have a negative meaning. They bring troubles and troubles, discord in family life. All dark shades, such as dark red, deep purple or black and blue, also have a bad effect. A wedding is a happy and bright day. It requires the same light and clean design.
Signs and superstitions
The tradition of throwing a bouquet is not the only sign.
A number of beliefs are associated with the wedding attribute, many of which are not widely known:
- The wedding symbol must be purchased by the groom or a male blood relative. Entrusting a purchase to a woman is a bad omen;
- the groom, going for a bouquet, must leave the house with his right foot, and when returning, cross the threshold with his left foot;
- It is not recommended to talk to anyone on the way to buy flowers;
- when paying for a purchase, they pay with such a bill that it is necessary to give change - this portends prosperity;
- a bad sign, promising troubles and failures, is to drop a bouquet during a celebration;
- During the banquet, the bouquet is placed in the center of the newlyweds’ table, complementing the decoration of the presidium.
Tips on how to catch the bride's bouquet at a wedding
The ceremony of throwing a bouquet can be classified as mystical. But it often happens that girls only remember why they should catch the bride’s bouquet, but they forget how to do it. Therefore, often caught bouquets “do not work.”
When the girls, while waiting for the bouquet, start a real fight and snatch it from each other, it looks funny from the outside, but unfortunately, all the magic of the ceremony disappears in this case. For the sign to be effective, the bridesmaids must stand behind her so as not to jostle or interfere with each other.
When the bride throws a bouquet, she does not see what trajectory it is flying along, so the flowers fall into the power of the Higher Powers. Only the girl into whose hands the bouquet flies itself can catch it.
Throwing a bouquet is not the easiest task, but catching it is even more difficult. There are several tricks that you can follow to increase your chances:
- stand in the first row in the center, approximately opposite the bride;
- when the countdown starts, start raising your hands;
- think not only about the treasured bouquet, but also about the girls standing nearby, so as not to hit them with your elbows.
Girls catch a bouquet from the hands of the bride
