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The dance of the bride and groom who have just become husband and wife is a very beautiful tradition. Just the two of you move to your favorite music, you can hug, take a breath and share with each other the emotions of your wedding day. Or, on the contrary, you surprise everyone present with an incendiary number and precise movements, like professionals. How to do this dance is up to you. And we will tell you how to prepare an unforgettable performance that will decorate your wedding evening. And don't forget to choose a suitable melody from our playlist.
Dance styles
To choose the style that suits you, pay attention not only to the visual side, but also to the complexity of the execution and its correspondence to the style of the wedding: at a classic celebration, the waltz will look more organic than hustle or rock and roll.
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How to decorate a friends dance
- Exploding ball. Before the banquet begins, a surprise balloon containing small balloons, confetti or rose petals is attached to the ceiling. During the feast, the ball merges with the interior and few people pay attention to it. At the height of the dance, try to be under the ball so that the surprise makes the proper impression on everyone present.
- Foam or bubbles. Rent a soap bubble generator and place it on the dance floor. When you start dancing, turn on the machine and hundreds of bubbles will create a rainbow atmosphere for your performance.
- Confetti. If the ceiling is too high or, conversely, low to hang a surprise balloon, use a confetti cannon for a spectacular display. For this, a specially trained person is hired, who presses the gun at the right moment and covers you with festive tinsel. The amazing effect of a glitter cannon will cover up any flaws in your performance and decorate the festive dance floor for the whole evening.
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A slow dance
Light swaying in each other's arms to romantic music is a choice for couples who are not ready to spend a lot of time choreographing the dance. This format is suitable for a cozy wedding and will help the couple focus on each other, and not on complex movements.
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Music for a wedding dance from the bride and groom with a surprise
Choosing the right music is an important preparation step. If the best wedding dance with a surprise is staged by a professional choreographer, then he will help you decide on the compositions, and if not, then you will have to listen to more than one song yourself to get the perfect option. Its main features should be originality and uniqueness, so you shouldn’t buy a ready-made one online; it’s better to use a music editor to assemble one that you like.
Wedding dance music is a mixture of your favorite compositions. The final version will be exclusive. The number of cuts and the playing time of each fragment, as well as the presence or absence of transitions between individual tracks - this is all selected by the choreographer if he is staging a dance or by the bride and groom when they decide to do it themselves.
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Waltz
The classic Viennese waltz is a rather active, fast-paced dance. The English waltz, or Boston waltz, is performed more restrained and slower. Whatever style you choose, the waltz is a dance that always looks impressive and incredibly romantic!
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Tango
A more passionate version of classical ballroom dance is the Argentine tango, characterized by a clear and energetic rhythm. It will be more difficult to prepare, but if you are a vibrant couple, the dance will fully convey the energy of the relationship.
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Salsa or bachata
Sensual and fast dances from Latin America. Learning these dances is not easy - it will take more time and a professional choreographer, and do not forget that they should be performed in comfortable clothes, and not in a wedding dress.
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Music selection
Choosing a suitable song or musical composition is an important point in preparation, which can make the dance bright and original. It is optimal to choose your own favorite songs and compositions and then stitch them together using computer programs. There are ready-made versions of such mixes on the Internet, but they will not be unique.
When staging the groom's dance, you should take into account some features:
- it is better to make the dance sensual and quite fast and energetic, otherwise the groom will look like a “sleepy fly”;
- during the performance, a positive mood, a smile on the face and a powerful charge of energy, which the groom must “send” to all those present, come first;
- adding retro melodies (twist, jazz, etc.) will give the number originality;
- When preparing a performance, you need not only to rehearse all the movements, but also to apply maximum imagination to make the performance unique and sensual.
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Rock'n'roll
Traditional rock and roll is a dance to rhythmic music with acrobatic movements. This is a beautiful show that will have a wow effect, but is only suitable for those who already have choreographic training.
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Foxtrot
Foxtrot fits well with both classical and modern music, and you can perform it even in a wedding dress - the flowing fabrics will only emphasize the beauty of the movements.
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Groom dance
To prepare such a dance, in which the groom will try to surprise his bride and all the guests, most likely, you will need the participation of a choreographer who can help in choosing a musical composition and staging the number itself.
The most interesting version of the performance is the surprise dance, which usually uses a mixture of several styles of music and movements. Dance elements of breakdancing, modern movements, country dance or free style are taken - the choice depends on the physical capabilities of the groom and his ability to dance. You can even change your shoes while dancing. The purpose of such a number is to make it unusual and interesting, and to give the groom the opportunity to show how “cool” he is.
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If the groom has professional dancing skills, then the help of a professional will help to fully reveal his talents in order to surprise not only the bride, but also parents and guests. With minimal capabilities of the groom, the movements are simple, and the visual effect is achieved by increasing the theatricality of the act.
Hustle or swing
These fast dances with jumps and complex lifts are suitable for young and active couples. To prepare them you will need a professional dance teacher, a special outfit and very comfortable shoes.
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Music for wedding dance
The key to the success of your dance is the right music that will create a magical atmosphere! For classical dancing there is nothing better than string music, and at a youth party you can dance to the songs of a cover band. For the first dance, you should choose a song that fully conveys the mood and emotions of the couple. In our playlist you will find the best songs for the dance of love.
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Dance of the groom with his mother and mother-in-law
The dance number of mother and son is a symbol reflecting the transition of a matured man from one woman to another, his bride. It shows parental love and filial love, the process of growing up and becoming a man who begins his life with his newly created family.
Such a dance must be choreographed in advance, optimally selecting music and beautiful movements. In terms of its effect, it should not overshadow the first dance of the newlyweds, but, accompanied by a gentle melody, evoke nostalgic memories of various touching moments in the life of not only the groom, but also the guests of the holiday.
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The ideal option when choosing a musical composition is a song that tells about a mother’s love for her son.
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Another wedding tradition is the dance of the groom and mother-in-law, which, with proper preparation, can become the highlight of the festive celebration. Existing folk traditions with washing the mother-in-law’s feet do not necessarily have to be included in the program, although if desired and properly staged, this option will add a folk flavor to the celebration program:
Duration of the wedding dance
Even the most beautiful dance will tire the audience if it turns out to be too long. Focus on 3-4 minutes - the average duration of one song. During this time, guests will fully enjoy the beauty of the moment, and you will not get tired.
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Production and rehearsals
To stage a complex dance, you will need a studio for classes with a choreographer and additional rehearsals at home. It is better to start classes 2-3 months before the celebration, so that you can learn the necessary movements without haste and hone your skills. So, at the most crucial moment you will feel confident and will be able to fully enjoy the moment.
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Clothes and shoes
As a rule, for the first dance, brides buy a second dress - one that is more comfortable and simple, and does not restrict movement. The same goes for shoes - make sure in advance that you can perform all the steps in wedding shoes. To do this, we recommend breaking in your shoes in advance or choosing shoes without heels.
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The exceptions are a simple slow dance and a classic waltz, which will only benefit if the bride is in a ballgown. But in this case, it is important to conduct the final rehearsal in wedding dresses to make sure that the long train does not interfere with you. If you do not want the groom to see you in your wedding look before the reception, wear a skirt similar to the one on the dress to the rehearsal.
Some tips
Of course, preparing even the simplest surprise performance will take you a lot of time, however, these efforts are well worth it. Since originality at a wedding is appreciated by almost all guests.
You will get the best wedding surprise dance if you use several dance styles together, and you can move from one option to another, gradually or abruptly when changing the music. In most cases, it begins with a classic waltz, which abruptly turns into a twist, quadrille, and even a polka and other variations. The choice plays a role in the presence of dancing abilities and imagination of the bride and groom. To achieve the best effect of a wedding dance with a surprise and comfort, the newlyweds wear different shoes.
A professional choreographer will help you achieve the correct staging. Of course, such an event means an investment of time and money, however, you will make your performance much better. At the same time, it is important to turn to a professional who will help you reveal all your talents and do everything at the highest level.
Another important point is the selection of music. Since it is the right melody that can help you make it beautiful and original even with a traditional performance.
Wedding dance to slow music
About 80% choose it because it is beautiful and fits well with the decor. Many people mistakenly believe that choosing this option will not surprise anyone. However, it is not. Even with slow music, you can put on a dance that will amaze everyone, and the guests will freeze with your every move.
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Wedding dance with a joke
It can include any elements that the bride and groom have enough imagination and capabilities to create. Rich newlyweds often throw a masquerade ball during their first dance. For example, in the style of past centuries: the bride in a luxurious dress, the groom in a tuxedo and, of course, masks.
Wedding dance story
This is the best option, if the bride and groom or one of them does not have outstanding choreographic abilities, then you can cheat and perform only the simplest movements. In fact, it will no longer be a dance, but a production with an interesting plot. This twist will truly surprise your guests.
Wedding dance show
This option is suitable for those couples who are pros in the field of dancing and have the same friends. In this case, you can come to an agreement with them and arrange a real show that will surprise and amaze those present. To make it a surprise, warn your friends so that they don’t tell anyone anything.
Wedding dance venue
You should think about performing a wedding dance at the stage of discussing the arrangement of tables and furniture. The Viennese waltz will require a fairly large hall, and during the dance your movements should not be hampered by decorative or interior details. Architectural lighting or heavy smoke will decorate the performance, but technical equipment should not be in the frame when taking photos and videos of the performance.
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Choice of wedding dance - congratulations from the guys
You can perform a dance of congratulations from friends at a wedding in different stylistic directions. It can be a stylized dance to modern music, a retro performance, a dance with humor, or a touching performance with deep emotional meaning. When choosing a wedding dance-congratulations from friends, you need to take into account the choreographic skills of the performers and their physiological characteristics.
Creative dances in wedding style
It’s good if the dance from friends matches the style of the wedding banquet. The number should be in harmony with the overall concept of the celebration.
If the wedding is taking place in a colorful Russian style, you can stage a cheerful and playful Russian folk dance. For a shabby chic wedding, a retro style number would be ideal. Find out in advance from the couple what style the wedding celebration is planned in and try to choose a dance style that matches the overall concept of the holiday.
Fairy
A cheerful dance of friends, embodying some fairy tale story. For example, you can create a dance performance “Musicians of Bremen” or “Three Heroes”. It will turn out humorous. The main thing is to choose cool costumes and set an interesting plot.
Cowboy
A cowboy dance of friends is perfect for a rustic wedding style. For this performance you need to come up with simple and rhythmic movements. It is better to perform the dance in a group of men of 4-6 people. All dance elements must be performed synchronously and confidently. Loose shirts and cowboy hats will help complete your cowboy look.
Pirate
Pirate dance is an ideal solution for performing at a wedding organized in a nautical theme. Friends need to choose original pirate costumes for the performance and come up with an interesting production in the appropriate style.
Gangster
Some couples organize gangster-themed weddings. Friends can prepare a themed surprise dance and perform a dance number in the image of a mafioso to retro music in the style of jazz, blues or foxtrot tunes.
Indian
Indian style dance is an original solution for congratulating newlyweds. True, friends will have to practice well, since to organize such a performance they will have to learn several emotional movements that create a spectacular dance. To make the number spectacular, you also need to prepare appropriate costumes in the Indian style.
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Dance as a theatrical performance
You can congratulate young spouses at a wedding with an original dance in the form of a theatrical performance. You can take any plot as a basis - romantic, with elements of humor, with deep meaning, conveying strong friendships, etc. There are many videos on the Internet with dance performances of friends at a wedding. Watch, look for interesting productions and bring them to life!
Non-standard wedding dance
If you want to surprise your guests, prepare a non-standard dance with elements of a flash mob, in which the bridesmaids and friends of the groom will take part, or a mashup - a combined dance where a slow melody unexpectedly gives way to a fast one. This dance will look fresh and unusual and will allow you to combine several different styles and favorite songs in one performance. Another good option is the dance of the bride and groom, at the end of which the host invites the guests to join the newlyweds. It looks very intimate and family-like.
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Dance from the bridesmaids
As for dancing as a gift from the bridesmaids, things are better with this. Girls are always eager to dance and you don’t need to think long about costumes, because just dresses and heels will look good.
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But if for a greater dancing effect, your girlfriends can rent costumes, or make them themselves from old clothes. The main thing is to decide on the style of the dance.
The girlfriends also need to group and decide where each person’s place is during the dance, so that the whole composition and movements look harmonious and impressive. It is worth spending time on rehearsals so that the dance is beautiful and the movements are performed simultaneously and synchronously.
A dance that will be started by the bridesmaids and finished by the groom's friends will look great. Such a unique change will be received with a bang by the guests and the newlyweds themselves. You can start the dance with tango, and end with an energetic “boogie-woogie”, or “tiktonik”, or any rehearsed fast movements.
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