The question of how a guest should dress for a wedding is not so obvious, because wedding guides addressed to men usually talk about the groom's clothing. But there are a few other wardrobe rules for guests to better present themselves. Poor dressing by a guest is sometimes considered a sign of disrespect for the bride and groom. Even if it doesn't seem important, remember what it may mean to some is whether or not you were trying to look elegant and correct. If you're looking for advice on how to dress as a wedding guest, you'll find it in this article on wedding styling.
How to dress for a wedding or go classic
Having attended several weddings, I have noticed that most guests, unfortunately, do not know how to properly dress for a wedding. Many of them use details that reduce the formality of the wardrobe at all costs. They act as if they are afraid that they will look too elegant. In many cases, men, even when they decide to buy a suit, choose one that has a non-standard cut, extravagant design or is made of too shiny fabric. We need to figure it out, first read our article about the men's dress code.
The rules of men's clothing clearly define what is appropriate for a special occasion and what is not. But you don't need to be an expert, someone in the store will advise you, right? Not always like this. Salespeople in most stores do not have enough knowledge and recommend what they think looks great. Meanwhile, there are many mistakes that you risk making.
The ideal wardrobe for a wedding guest
We “miss” such a nightmare as jackets fastened with five buttons right under the neck, or suits with contrasting piping. And even elegant things may not be suitable for a wedding. For example, a black suit that is only suitable for funerals. And a wedding almost always takes place during the day and has nothing to do with mourning! When it comes to shoes, a less formal derby in a bright color is also not an option. Sets of ties for a couple with the groom made of the same material and the same color are a bad idea. This is a simple task, which nevertheless has no justification in the traditions of formal dress.
With basic knowledge, you can go into a store with clearly defined needs. And don’t believe sellers’ offers to buy an inexpensive suit with a mixture of synthetics in the fabric. Such suits look “cheap” and understanding people will immediately spot you from the crowd and call you a person with a modest income and bad taste. Read this guide and you will surely know how to dress a male guest at a wedding.
How to choose a festive pantsuit for women
A women's evening trouser suit is an ideal and unusual option for a special occasion. To choose it correctly, you need to pay attention to several points.
Material
It is better to choose an evening suit from dense fabrics that hold their shape well. An important point is that the fabric does not wrinkle or wrinkle. The publication may take a long time, so you need to give preference to “long-lasting” materials. It can be suit fabric, thick knitwear or a combined fabric with wool.
Tweed suits are the trend of the season. The naturalness of the fabrics is also important; synthetics and cheap samples are visible to the naked eye.
Sizes for fat and thin women
Evening dresses, be it a dress or a trouser suit, must fit perfectly to the figure, emphasizing the advantages and hiding flaws as much as possible. It is easier for thin and tall girls to cope with this task. It is important for them to take into account that the shoulder line of the jacket should coincide with their own shoulder level. The length of the trousers should not be too short.
A jacket that is not too fitted will hide excessive thinness. Sizes in generally accepted lines are 40-42 (XS), 42-44 (S), 44-46 (M). Women with curvier figures need to take care to visually elongate their figure. For this purpose, trousers are selected with a high waist. They will visually lengthen your legs and hide the folds on your stomach.
The jacket should not be short; it is good if it slightly covers the hips. The size of the suit must be appropriate: no tugging or pinching of body folds is allowed. Sizes for such women: 48-50 (L), 50-52 (XL), 52-54 (XXL).
Color
The color schemes of trouser suits are varied. For the evening, it is customary to choose dark or bright colors. One thing to remember is that thin women should choose lighter colors. And for overweight women, darker, volume-concealing ones. Red is an elegant choice for those who prefer bright accents.
Such an image will definitely not go unnoticed, so it is necessary to provide for everything down to the smallest detail: perfect makeup, manicure, hairstyle, shoes.
Black color is an all-time classic. It will look great on all body types. But you should understand that such a strict image is not suitable for cheerful holidays. In this situation, bright accessories or shoes can save you. Evening suits with bright patterns will definitely make you stand out from the crowd.
This option is well suited for creative parties where a sense of style and uniqueness is valued. Animal print on evening suits has been a fashion trend for several seasons in a row.
A tailored leopard suit will highlight and highlight a woman’s individuality at an art exhibition or jazz concert. Pastel colors (powdery, beige, gray, blue) are suitable for women who want to emphasize their softness and femininity.
Decor
A women's trouser suit (evening or casual) can be decorated with decoration, provided that the color and model allow this. A brooch on the collar of a jacket will accentuate your neck and décolleté. For formal and dark suits, it is better to choose a laconic one in gold or silver. For bright and non-classical options - massive brooches with stones and rhinestones.
A neckerchief will decorate a suit in muted tones.
This will make it more festive. There are many ways to tie it: as a tie or simply draped around your neck. Belt on trousers is another fashion trend this season. This can be either a narrow classic leather belt to match the suit, or an unexpectedly bright wide belt with a massive plaque.
It should be understood that such an accent will definitely draw attention to the waist and abdomen. Therefore, women with problems in this area are recommended to give preference to a different type of decor.
Season
The pantsuit should be appropriate for the season. In warm seasons, you can give preference to light or bright sets made of silk flowing fabrics. In cold weather - denser evening options with wool in the composition, colors may vary. A tailored trouser suit that is out of season will catch your eye. And a woman will not be able to feel comfortable in it.
Purpose
When going out for the evening, you need to make sure that the trouser suit is appropriate in the context of the future event. A wedding involves the presence of 2 central figures at the celebration. Therefore, you should not choose an outfit that will compete with the bride’s dress. A snow-white classic suit will not work. Dressing in mourning monotonous colors is also not appropriate.
It will be great to choose a bright suit that emphasizes the festive mood. If you are going to attend a loved one’s birthday, you can choose a set in calm tones and spend time on an elegant hairstyle. This image will be friendly and at the same time relevant.
If the party is dedicated to your own holiday (birthday, name day), then you should think about a more intense look: a suit with an active print and bright decorations will make you stand out among the crowd. New Year is a reason to dress up in your best. A sequin trouser suit is the most fashionable fall-winter trend of the outgoing year.
Here you should think about massive accessories: earrings, bracelets, brooches. The look will be complemented by evening makeup with an emphasis on the eyes.
For those who like to dress more modestly, you can choose a fitted suit with lurex or give preference to unusual fabrics: suede, pearl silk.
Corporate parties or business dinners require a certain dress code. It is important not to overdo it with bright and flashy details. An elegant, tailored suit will be an excellent choice. Tied up hair and a bare neck will create a festive look. You should not choose jackets that emphasize high chests; this may confuse employees.
Exhibitions, theaters, concerts are a reason to wear your perfect trouser suit. By using your imagination, you can create the most unexpected image. Here it is important to remember only the cultural component of these places: it is not appropriate to dress in provocative and vulgar outfits.
Two-piece suit for a wedding
Best Suit Options You Can Wear to a Wedding
A classic suit is a good choice for a wedding. It is best to choose dark blue, dark gray or graphite. Like we said, forget about black. Don't risk wearing a tuxedo because you might end up dressing more formally than the groom. It is he and his beloved who should be the center of attention. You don't want anyone to mistake you for the groom. It is best that the suit fastens with two buttons and has standard open lapels. You can also consider peak lapels, but remember that in such a suit there is a risk of looking more elegant than the groom. For the same reason, skip a double-breasted suit, which is considered more formal than a single-breasted suit.
Interestingly, some companies offer suits with 2.5 buttons. This decision refers to the Italian style. In fact, only two holes are visible, and the third is on one of the lapels. This is also a good choice for a wedding guest suit. The best fabric for a formal suit is wool, which is breathable and doesn't wrinkle too much. Summer fabrics made from linen or cotton are also acceptable. But we would rather recommend a wool blend than, for example, a cotton or linen suit. Such materials wrinkle quickly.
A well-tailored suit in navy or gray is a great investment. It will last for years, not just for a wedding. It can be folded and worn as a set with other trousers or a shirt. This is the foundation of every man's wardrobe.
Can a wedding guest wear a vest? First of all, it's a good choice. The choice is between single-breasted and double-breasted vests. A vest that contrasts with a jacket and trousers can be a particularly interesting solution. Proponents of classic elegance often pair a light gray waistcoat with a dark blue suit for a stunning look. The vest is also used in a coordinated set.
When wearing a vest, it is not necessary to button the jacket; this increases the wearing comfort. The vest also keeps the tie in the correct position. Remember, however, that the vest is worn with suspenders. A belt sticking out of a vest is a mistake. Trousers must have no loops.
Style of evening women's suits
A women's trouser suit, especially an evening one, can be designed in completely different styles. Which one to choose is an individual matter of taste for each woman.
Baroque
The Baroque style in trouser suits is distinguished by its luxury and splendor. It was opened during the era of Louis XIV.
There are several distinctive features inherent in this direction:
- double trousers;
- ruffles, waves, flounces;
- textured fabrics;
- embroideries and patterns;
- bright threads in delays.
Lovers of an abundance of decorations, pretentiousness and bright details should pay attention to this style.
Versailles
The Versailles style is distinguished by French zest and severity. It fits well with the business style of trousers and jackets.
This direction combines:
- geometric lines;
- laconic decoration;
- subdued tones;
- the presence of “masculine” attributes: cufflinks, ties;
- metal fittings.
Business women and businesswomen will like the Versailles style.
Gavroche
The style, which became widespread in the era of Charlie Chaplin, is called Gavroche. It includes a very short jacket to the waist with different collar options and tapered trousers.
The style is distinguished by hooligan details that balance on the border between male and female images:
- textured collars made of leather, satin, suede;
- rolled up trouser legs;
- combination of several colors;
- worn effect;
- combination with rough flat shoes;
- asymmetrical accents.
This direction is best chosen by slender girls of small stature with a boyish figure.
Retro
Retro style takes you back to the past and reminds you of what was relevant in the last century.
Its distinctive features:
- material features: cashmere, linen, silk;
- rich and bright colors;
- certain prints: check, polka dots, flowers;
- combination of colors and textures.
Costumes in this style are suitable for lovers of everything traditional and classic.
Casual
Casual style translates as casual and casual. Pantsuits in this direction are the most practical and comfortable. They are created for an active lifestyle, walking and going to work.
Vivid signs of this style:
- loose trouser cuts;
- emphasis on the sleeves of jackets;
- variety of pockets;
- decoration with fur;
- laconic images.
Every woman should have a casual pantsuit in her wardrobe.
This is one of the basic components of a woman's wardrobe. You can combine it with any practical shoes and accessories.
Victorian
The style gained popularity in the 19th century and was named after Queen Victoria.
The style is distinguished by its pretentiousness, layering and abundance of various decorations (ruffles, flounces). Expensiveness and luxury determine the basis of the style.
Distinctive features:
- rich fabrics: silk, satin, velvet;
- emphasis on femininity by highlighting the waist (fitted jackets with an hourglass cut);
- high and decorative collars;
- embroidery and stitching with expensive threads, stones and rhinestones;
- the use of corsets under a jacket or jacket.
Products in this luxurious style are selected for special occasions. Many bright accents prevent the suit from being worn every day.
Trousers and blazer in a different color - coordinated set
How to Style Pants and a Blazer
In many situations, you can replace a suit with a coordinated set. This means styling with a blazer and trousers in different colors. This is a less formal choice for an occasion such as a wedding, but is acceptable nowadays. Well, unless the bride and groom belong to your family, then it would be more correct to stay in a suit.
The most classic coordinated set consists of a navy fine wool blazer and gray trousers - called the club set. In summer, darker chinos can also be paired with a dark blazer. This set is suitable for those who would like to dress more casually. It would be inappropriate to wear jeans that you would rather save for another occasion.
Wedding shoes – the right type of shoes for a wedding
Shoes should be quite formal for such a celebration.
The best choice for such formal events would be black oxfords. Shoes should have the simplest shape with a minimum number of stitches and decorations. It is better that the top with laces for the laces is closed at the bottom, like Oxford shoes. This gives the shoe a simple and elegant shape.
In summer, you can optionally wear classic, elegant moccasins, so-called penny loafers made of smooth leather. Suede would be too informal for the occasion. Black shoes are considered best for formal occasions. They go with navy blue and gray trousers, which are the colors we usually choose for weddings.
Brown shoes are a risky choice and some people consider it inappropriate. On the other hand, if we are already choosing a less formal wardrobe, for example with beige chinos or light gray ones, then black shoes will not work. Don't forget to polish your shoes thoroughly. The tips and heels should be well polished. By working a little on the gloss, add shine to the entire stylization.
Socks for wedding shoes
Even the choice of socks for a wedding should be approached delicately.
Socks are matched to shoes or trousers. Get creative and choose the color of your socks to match your tie or pocket square. They should be made of smooth material. If you choose a pattern, don't let it be too extravagant. Peas seem like a good idea - like the one in the picture above.
Socks should be high. The idea is to not show your shin when you sit down. To ensure your socks stay in place all the time, you can invest in sock garters. The most stylish additions of this type are products from the British brand Albert Thurston, worn by kings, presidents and, of course, Agent 007.
Shawl for wedding ceremony
A classic white scarf is always a must-have, even at a wedding.
When it comes to choosing a pocket square, some people go crazy. Men rarely remember it, considering the scarf too much extravagance. However, it is an integral element of classical elegance, sanctified by tradition. A pocket square can be an interesting piece of clothing, completing and complementing a style. If you don’t know how to place it in your pocket, read our article - how to fold a pocket square into a jacket pocket.
A plain white handkerchief, preferably linen, is a good choice because the slightly rough material holds in place in the pocket. It doesn't slide off as easily as silk. The game also includes scarves with edges edged in a contrasting color. A geometric or even complex design is not wrong, but try not to make the design look garish. Save bold decisions for other occasions. Remember to match the scarf with your outfit, but don't choose the same as your tie.
Shirt for wedding
These 3 shirt options are more appropriate at a wedding than others.
Of course, men who came to a wedding in a short-sleeved shirt cannot be called elegant. Those who sell such shirts for costumes should be punished somehow. Unfortunately, this trend is still observed at weddings. A classic long-sleeved shirt with cuffs for buttons or cufflinks is suitable for a wedding. As for color, classic white would be suitable. Also available in blue and pink. Avoid shirts with variegated colors, as well as shirts that are too dark or shiny.
The shirt is fastened with all buttons. A plunging neckline is the prerogative of women, especially in formal situations. And don't wear a shirt over your pants! It should always be tucked into the pants, ironed and tight-fitting - without folds hanging above the waistband. If the shirt is too wide at the waist, have it tapered by a tailor or have the shirt tucked in correctly. By the way, there is an excellent solution to prevent your shirt from coming out of your pants - shirt suspenders.
Combining parts
In our realities, a trouser suit and a woman’s evening or wedding outfit have an innumerable number of options, taking into account the characteristics of a woman’s figure, her preferences, the time of year, fashion trends and dozens of other factors. When choosing a style and combining it with additional accessories, it is important to remember that the cut and your overall look should be significantly different from everyday clothes.
Chiffon blouses and bustiers harmonize very well with suit long trousers, and an open jacket goes perfectly with a shiny top. Pay attention to the color of the shoes - it should also be combined with the color scheme of the entire outfit, but in no case should it merge with it. If you can wear white shoes under a white suit, then orange with orange shoes, an orange bracelet, orange beads and an orange scarf will look, at least, strange.
We must not forget that white trousers will emphasize the fullness of the hips; if it is excessive, it is better to opt for something else. Or, again, a jacket, but then non-white. You can choose wide trouser legs made of flowing fabric, which will give illusory length and disguise figure flaws.
To complete your festive look, you can’t do without accessories and beautiful, expensive jewelry, carefully selected to match your wardrobe. For a wedding, a veil with a trouser suit will be superfluous; instead, it is better to choose a small hat with a veil. You can complement the outfit with gloves, a small handbag, and, of course, jewelry.
The right tie for a wedding
How to choose a tie for a wedding guest
The last element of a wedding wardrobe is a tie or bow tie. You can't go bare-necked to this kind of ceremony. The tie for the wedding set should be plain or with a delicate pattern. It is better to choose muted colors (blue, dark blue, crimson, gray). A bright tie is a mistake.
You should also not match a tie to the groom's outfit, it is in bad taste. You are not twins whose mother buys the same clothes. Your connection to each other should be based on the fact that you are both dressed at the same level of formality. That's all.
The most suitable for a wedding would be a silk tie. You can also wear ties made from other natural fabrics (such as wool or cotton) for less formal outfits. Jersey knit ties are less formal. In any case, forget about synthetics such as polyester or microfiber. A tie should be a decoration, skillfully made from quality material, and not a cheap imitation made of plastic. If you do not yet have knowledge and understanding, it is better to check the composition on the label, because even in seemingly decent boutiques you can find synthetic materials. Also, thin ties are not suitable for weddings.
Choosing a wedding outfit according to the time of year
A wedding dress for guests should not only be beautiful, made from high-quality fabric to fit the figure. It is necessary to take into account the time of year and the weather outside the window. A light summer outfit is inappropriate in the middle of a harsh winter, even if the room is warm enough. And if you are planning a wedding outdoors or with festivities and trips through the streets and outskirts of a populated area, then it is even more necessary to approach the choice of outfit from a practical point of view.
What to wear to a winter wedding
In frosty weather, closed outfits made of thick, warm fabrics are perfect:
- velvet, velor;
- wool, thick satin;
- soft knitwear.
Heavy fabric complemented with lace, chiffon or fur cape looks amazing. The colors are also deep and rich: cornflower blue, dark green, violet, amethyst, burgundy, gold. Men can choose plaid suits or trousers with a shirt and sweater.
If you plan to move a lot, then a long robe will get in the way and may cause a fall. Therefore, it is better to prefer a medium length to the knee or midi. It is necessary to provide replacement shoes, since even the most expensive and stylish boots are inappropriate for the holiday.
What to wear to a wedding in spring
In spring, nature gradually awakens from its winter sleep. The birds are chirping loudly, and the sun is warming up like summer. And people also want something bright and magical. Dresses with large floral prints look great on young girls. If a guest wants to emphasize her figure and look like an aristocrat, she should choose a bright plain dress made of satin shining with the inner light, with a wide belt and an airy skirt. Light floor-length dresses are also appropriate in spring. If a man wants to stand out, his spring look will be perfectly emphasized by the unusual color of a tie or hat.
What to wear to a summer wedding
The warm season opens up space for the most daring, bright outfits. The lightest fabrics and light shades are in demand. Young girls will like sets of a skirt and top or a very light blouse. And older ladies can complement their dress with a flirty hat and pearl threads. If the wedding is held in an informal setting, even jeans for guys and sundresses with straps for girls are appropriate.
What to wear to a wedding in the fall
This time of year is full of bright, fiery colors, and the air is noticeably cool. Severe frosts are common in late autumn, and there is already snow in the northern regions. During this period, outfits made of warm, dense fabrics with unusual shades and patterns would be appropriate:
- blue, emerald, golden tones;
- noble chocolate and soft beige;
- wine, bright red, burgundy accents;
- bright yellow or orange elements and accessories.
An elegant outfit of trousers and a blouse, or a floor-length dress with long sleeves is quite suitable.
