Men's look for a wedding without a suit: what to wear for a guest

While preparing for the celebration, many people wonder how a male guest without a suit should dress for a wedding, studying photos of the festive dress code. The traditional male look is the embodiment of restraint, elegance and style. In addition to appearance, there are many other issues that need to be resolved before the ceremony. For example, who to go with, what gift to choose and how best to congratulate the newlyweds. But the most important thing is still making your own bow. Let's look at the best options.

Stylish groomsmen

How to look stylish with or without a suit

During the pre-wedding season, many people don’t know what to wear to a friend’s wedding. Not everyone wears classic suits, and buying one for once is not the best idea. But what will the choice of image depend on:

• on the format of the celebration;
• on the style and theme of the party, as well as the possible dress code;
• from the wedding venue.

Themed costume wedding with dress code for guests

Let's look at the most popular and universal options for images for this event:

• an unpaired suit consisting of a jacket, shirt and trousers of different shades is one of the most win-win options. In this case, the shirt can be plain, checkered or even printed. The main thing is that all colors harmonize well with each other. As decoration, you can use a fashionable pocket square in your jacket pocket;

  

• dark bottom and light top - this can be a shirt with a beige or white jacket, and below - dark blue, brown or black trousers. This image can visually enlarge the shoulders, which will add masculinity to the silhouette;

  

• a three-piece consisting of trousers, a vest and a shirt - can be worn outside formal events. This is a look without a jacket, just for those who like free movement and comfort. After all, not everyone likes to wear jackets that restrict movement. And many have a problem with the fit when choosing them. It is better to buy a vest with a back made of material identical to the front. The highlight of the look can be a bow tie, scarf or tie;

  

• just a shirt and trousers - simple and stylish at the same time. This modern set is suitable for weddings that are held without formality and in a more relaxed manner, or you can add a tie, bow tie and suspenders, as well as a wedding accessory especially for the groom’s friends or witness. Don’t be afraid to roll up your three-quarter sleeves - this will give your image a slight, deliberate negligence, as in the photo;

  

• fashionable jeans, as a replacement for standard trousers, are very relevant today. The shade can be either light or dark. The main thing is that they fit the figure and match the top of the image. As for the style, there are also no restrictions. You can dress up in classic straight, cropped or tapered jeans. The shirt does not have to be tucked in; it can be left for release;

  

• a polo or dress T-shirt is also no exception. They can be combined with any accessory, trousers or vest. The only thing is that a tie in this case will no longer be an acceptable attribute, so you should dress up in a vest or bow tie;

  

• If you still decide to go to your friends’ wedding in a suit, the main thing is not to look like the groom. Be sure to check the color of his outfit in advance and feel free to go to the store.

It is important not only to decide how best to dress a male guest without a suit at a wedding (as shown in the photo below), but also to choose the appropriate shoes for the occasion. Stylists recommend giving preference to loafers or brogues.

Men's loafers are a great option for an original wedding look.

Which color is better

First you need to decide on a range of shades that suit the groom's type of appearance. It is necessary to build on the following recommendations:

1. Muted type of appearance - blond or brown hair, gray, blue, green or light brown eyes, pastel or dark skin. So you can choose a suit in different shades of green, brown and gray; brick, classic black and olive colors are suitable. It is undesirable to use bright colors.
2. Bright type of appearance - dark brown or black hair, eyes of any bright color, light or beige skin. Pure rich shades of green, blue, purple, yellow and red are suitable, as is classic black. It is not advisable to use dirty or light colors.
3. Light type of appearance - light brown hair, gray, green or blue eyes, pale or pink skin. Any pastel colors will do, but it’s best to go with blue or beige. Bright shades are not recommended.
4. Dark type of appearance - brown or black hair, dark brown or dark green eyes, bronze, dark or dark skin. Dark blue, brown, dark green and all their shades are suitable, black is also acceptable.

When an approximate range has been selected, you need to determine those options that will suit the style of the wedding. In each case, the answer to the question of what color suit to choose for a wedding depends on a number of factors.

For a classic celebration, black, gray or blue suits are suitable; the shirt should be plain, preferably white. If you choose a three-piece suit, then all elements must be the same shade.

For a wedding in Provence, rustic or boho style, the groom can choose a beige, milky, olive or light gray suit depending on the color of the bride’s dress. In these cases, the elements of the image can be of different shades; most often, the jacket is chosen to be brighter than the trousers and vest.

If the celebration is in Tiffany style, then a man can choose a suit in black, blue or gray. The turquoise accent characteristic of such a celebration can be placed on the butterfly and boutonniere. A three-piece suit is also allowed, in which the trousers and jacket are black, the shirt is white, and the vest is turquoise.

For a wedding stylized as a dude or for a celebration in the Russian style, bright colors are suitable - yellow, red, orange. When choosing a nautical theme, the groom can wear a bright blue, light blue or turquoise suit. For a retro style, a bright accent can be present in the shirt.

How not to dress as a guest

Today there are many options for how to dress for the wedding of friends, but the classic suit is considered the most advantageous. It is especially relevant for weddings held in winter or with a certain strict dress code. But modern models are distinguished by extravagance and freedom of expression. In addition, you can successfully choose original combinations of trousers, shirts and other fashionable attributes.

However, you don’t need to go overboard when creating a wedding dress, so stylists advise observing some nuances when choosing a wardrobe. What not to wear to a wedding:

• wardrobe items that do not match the theme of the event. The wedding invitation may indicate a specific dress code, which may imply, for example, a single color scheme for the guests’ outfits, the presence of a tailcoat, tuxedo and tie, themed suits, cocktail or casual style;

  

• sports and casual clothing and shoes. This includes sweatpants, pullovers, sweaters, T-shirts, sleeveless vests, sneakers, sneakers and sandals. These wardrobe attributes will be inappropriate because they do not correspond to the theme of the event. However, there are individual cases when such an outfit was originally conceived according to the script, as in the photo;

  

• You shouldn’t wear an all-black outfit or set; the look can be diluted with bright accessories or light shades. Otherwise, you risk inspiring sadness and mourning on those present, but a wedding is still a joyful event in the life of the newlyweds;

  

• only white things are also not relevant, because you risk blending in with the bride’s snow-white dress. A white shirt and trousers can be diluted with a bright designer vest, tie and suspenders;

  

• a suit like the groom's, if this idea is not part of the concept of the event. To do this, you need to find out in advance what the groom will be wearing. And if you are invited as a witness, make sure that your image is in harmony with the dress of the main bridesmaid - the witness.

  

So that your clothes do not look out of place, and your image emphasizes your style and sense of taste, you should approach the selection of your wedding wardrobe as responsibly as possible. Don’t forget to also write a beautiful wedding greeting to your friends, come up with wishes and parting words.

Trousers or jeans

Choosing trousers with a current cut is another important topic. It is absolutely not necessary that they be classic and strict. In the warm season, give preference to cotton fabrics in light shades - for example, beige or light blue trousers. Make sure they are the right length.

The perfect trousers for a wedding celebration

But if you can be creative in choosing shirts and polos, then when choosing jeans, on the contrary, you should avoid being too original. For example, avoid models with “torn holes” - despite the fact that they are combined with fashion trends, this is clearly not an option for a wedding ceremony.

Men's looks with jeans for a wedding

You can't ignore the shoes. Of course, it’s obvious to everyone that you shouldn’t wear beach flip-flops to a wedding.

But what about sneakers? After all, sports shoes are extremely popular now, and their price tag can compete with the cost of expensive classic shoes.

Shoes for weddings

We answer: no matter how modern and youthful the upcoming wedding is, still save sneakers for informal meetings with friends or sports, as well as trips to nature. The only exception: if your friends’ wedding is themed and organized, for example, in the style of football or another sport, only then will sneakers be one hundred percent appropriate.

Sneakers for a wedding look

Give preference to expensive, high-quality shoes that match the color. If you opted for jeans and a polo, then summer men's boots or leather moccasins in a classic color would be a good option.

Several outfit options for plus size people

For men with larger clothing sizes, it is better to pay attention to dark shades in the image, as well as spacious models of shirts and trousers. Black, dark blue or brown trousers and vests are very suitable for overweight people.

What else is important to consider:

1. Horizontal patterns or stripes are visually slimming, but vertical ones should be completely abandoned;
2. Pants should be chosen with a loose fit;
3. Make sure that there are no folds on the clothes, and they should not be too tight to the body;
4. It is better not to use belts, but to give preference to stylish suspenders - they come with metal clips and buttons;
5. Polos and shirts with a shark collar will look best;
6. The tie, if there is one, should be large and wide. Thin and small accessories will look funny on a big man;
7. Wear shirts and T-shirts to graduation.

It is believed that big guys look great with a beard. She, of course, should be well-groomed and have a stylish shape.

All these recommendations apply not only to young people, but also to older men. If you take your look seriously, clothes will hide flaws and highlight your dignity, as well as look neat and elegant.

Wedding look for large men

Semi-formal

The semi-formal style of clothing includes two varieties - Stroller and Black tie. The style is strict and formal, although its name may initially be misleading.

This type of clothing is not suitable for everyday life.

The varieties differ in the time in which they are usually worn:

• Stroller. Allows you to choose the colors of the suit - black or gray for a tuxedo, plain gray or gray with white stripes for trousers. The tie can be gray, and the vest can be chosen in gray or blue. This choice of clothing is typical for events that take place during the daytime.
• Black tie is used for evening events where there is no choice of colors. The suit and bow tie are black, the shirt is white.

What to wear to a wedding in winter and summer

In any case, the wedding dress will be selected in accordance with the season, climate and weather conditions. If you are not going to wear a two-piece suit or tuxedo to the celebration, but still haven’t found the right look, don’t despair. At any time of the year you can do without a standard set, even in winter.

What to wear in winter:

• insulated shirt;
• sweater or pullover (in rare cases this is the idea for a costume party);
• vest made of wool or bouclé fabric;
• cardigan over shirt;
• It is better to choose smoky, gray, blue and brown shades (sand, coffee, chocolate, etc.).

A men's wedding look for summer and spring will look a little different, from shoes to accessories and trousers. Let's take a closer look at how to dress for a wedding in the summer:

• short sleeve or three-quarter sleeve shirt;
• all components of the image should be made of loose and light fabric, otherwise you may suffer greatly from the heat;
• clothes should be chosen from linen, cashmere or cotton;
• trousers can be shortened, and at some parties shorts and even jeans are allowed;
• It is better if the clothes are not too tight and tightly buttoned. You can leave the shirt on and roll up the long sleeves. During the holiday, you can unbutton a few top buttons.

To feel as free and comfortable as possible during dances, competitions and congratulations, use a minimum of accessories and decor in your outfit. A bow tie or tie can restrict movement, and if it is made of thick material, you will be very hot.

Arrival of the groom

In some traditions, on the morning of the wedding day, the groom must visit the bride's house and check if she is ready for the groom's arrival. When the groomsmen arrive, the bride should already be in her wedding clothes and sit in the red corner.

The groom, his groomsmen, friends and relatives make up the wedding train. As the train moved towards the bride's house, its participants (poezzhans) sang special “poezzhans” songs.

The arrival of the groom was accompanied by one or more ransoms. In most regional traditions, this is a purchase of the entrance to the house. A gate, a door, etc. can be redeemed. Both the groom himself and the groom can redeem.

Elements of magical actions in this part of the ritual are especially important. Road sweeping is common. This is done so that an object that could be damaged (hair, stone, etc.) is not thrown at the young people’s feet. The specific road that should be swept varies among different traditions. This could be the road in front of the bride’s house along which the groom’s train will travel, it could be the floor of the room along which the newlyweds will walk before leaving for the wedding, the road to the groom’s house after the wedding, etc. The groomsmen and other guests carefully watched so that no one violated the cleanliness of the road (for example, would not cross the path of the wedding train); For such a violation, the perpetrator could be severely beaten. Since pagan times, the custom of making an offering to the local sorcerer or healer (if available) has been preserved so that they do not harm the wedding train. In this case, the sorcerer could deliberately come to the train and stand there until he receives a sufficient gift.

An essential detail of the ritual, preserved in urban conditions, is the direct ransom of the bride. The bride can be bought either from her girlfriends or from her parents.

Sometimes there was ritual deception of the groom. The bride was brought out to him, covered with a scarf. For the first time, they might have brought out not the real bride, but another woman or even an old woman. In this case, the groom either had to go look for the bride, or buy her again.

Useful tips

Modern men have a huge assortment of wedding dresses, original combinations and festive looks without a suit at their disposal. But the appearance was stylish and harmonious, the designers advise you to listen to some recommendations:

• if you do not plan to wear a suit, and the celebration is planned outdoors, take a cardigan or a fashionable jacket with you so as not to freeze;
• if you are going to a wedding with a girlfriend, wife or just a friend, it is better if your outfits match in style or color palette;
• shoes are selected last, based on the color, length and tailoring of the trousers, as well as the cut and material of the shirt and jacket;
• do not forget about the color of the socks - it should match the boots or shoes.

To understand how best to dress a male guest without a suit at a wedding (as can be seen in the photo selection below), and look attractive at the same time, you need to think through your image in advance. It is better to carefully and tastefully select every detail of your holiday wardrobe, taking into account the features of the event and your preferences. After all, you will remember the wedding for a long time and will still remind you of this event from the surface of the photographs.

Protective rituals

• In order to deceive the dark forces during matchmaking, they changed the route and took roundabout roads.
• The ringing of bells, which accompanied the wedding train all the way to the church, was considered protection from evil spirits.
• To turn the head of the evil spirit and send him to hell, the young people were led around a pole or tree.
• In order for the brownie to accept the young woman into a new family, it was necessary to carry the bride into the house in his arms without stepping on the threshold.
• They were protected from damage and evil spirits by abstaining from uttering words and from eating.
• For large families and wealth, they showered the young with grain or hops and sat them on a fur coat with the fur blowing upwards.
• To strengthen the connection between the newlyweds, they mixed wine from the glasses of the newlyweds, stretched threads from the bride’s house to the groom’s house, and tied the hands of the bride and groom with a scarf or towel.