The art of being a wedding guest: advice from a wedding specialist

Scenario #3

MEETING OF YOUNG SPOUSES
The bride and groom are met by their parents, they throw a towel over them, tie them up and lead them to the table with the words: “Hold on tight, and go through family life amicably, happily, to the delight of your parents and friends!” The rest pay an entrance fee. The young spouses are invited to the wedding table first, followed by the witnesses. Parents are invited to take the place of honor. All guests are invited to the wedding table.

HOLIDAY Feast

Leading:

Oh, you, guests, gentlemen! We called you here, So that you don’t dare to get bored, Let us start. I hope from the bottom of my heart - Let's have fun! We will begin our feast with honesty - We ask everyone to sit down!

Leading:

Our dear newlyweds, (names of the bride and groom)! Dear parents! Dear guests! Today we have gathered here to celebrate the most important and joyful, most significant event in the lives of our young people - the day of their marriage, the day of entering into a lasting union. From this day a new page in their life begins, and what it will be like depends only on them.

A toast to the newlyweds: Wedding is a beautiful Russian word! The bride is all in white, and next to her is he, whom she, with tender love, still calls her groom. Their parents look at them expectantly. How they want their children to always keep gratitude in their souls and never forget about them. Today there is fun, and toasts, and jokes, And tomorrow ordinary days will come, When you will have to follow the same fate Through the heat and blizzard through life. But no matter what happens, may peace and harmony settle in your little home forever. Let the children grow up, and let them call you a happy mother, a smart father. And let your love shine joyfully, Like a rainbow in the sky washed by rain. Let only the two of you see yourself in every dewdrop and every tear! Please accept this solemn verse as a gift, We raise a toast to you, to both of you. Now, as usual, you will have to divide both grief and joy in half. And now, dear guests, we want to read:

Leading:

Today you were invited to the Celebration. For many this is the first time at such an evening, so I will read you the rules of conduct for the evening.

Rules of behavior at our wedding: 1. You can’t be bored, you can joke. 2. You can’t be sad, you can sing and dance. 3. Look at other people's wives and husbands, but don't forget about your own. 4. We forbid you to swear, fight, argue under the table. If you've had a little too much to drink, it's better to go to sleep in silence. 5. Without further explanation, everyone should keep their place. Pouring juice or wine into a neighbor’s pocket is prohibited. 6. Don’t grumble or swear, don’t kiss everyone, don’t get angry under any circumstances, have fun with all your heart. 7. If someone mistakenly took melancholy with him, Urgently put it in the refrigerator, For cutlets to the cook. 8. If before leaving you found someone else's things on you slightly. This, really, is not a problem. But we strictly forbid going home when someone else’s husband or wife is next to you!

Leading:

Having familiarized ourselves with the rules, let’s not forget about the young people:

A toast to the young: Walking through life hand in hand You must forget, friends, boredom, Know how to give in to each other And don’t dare to offend yourself. We wish you happiness, and only let the crafty, uncontrollable “Bitter!” be heard again and again. And so that there is not bitter love. Bitterly!

Leading:

Before we continue our evening, let's get to know each other. I ask the bride and groom to introduce their family, close and dear friends. (The young people begin to introduce everyone sitting at the table in turn, for example, clockwise, if there are few people - 30...40 people, then they introduce everyone, if more, the toastmaster interrupts the presentation of the guests after 20...30 introduced people and continues to conduct the evening further)

Leading:

Dear and respected guests, today everything is new for our young people. Today they started a family, but they don’t even know what a family is, let’s introduce them:

Constitution of a young family:

1. (name of the bride and groom) have the right to connect their paths and create a healthy, wonderful family, they are obliged to preserve and take care of it until the end of their days.
2. The wife is the supreme legislative body. Her husband is her deputy.
3. The wife is the Minister of Finance, Culture, Trade, Food Industry, and Health. The husband is the Minister of Electrification, the Gas Industry, Meat and Dairy, Agriculture, and the Minister of the Interior.
4. The wife has the right to rest, the husband to work.
5. The wife is required to prepare a light dinner every evening. The husband is obliged to serve his wife hot coffee in bed every morning.
6. Spouses have the right to kiss at least once a week.
7. Spouses have the right to have from 1 to 15 children. Children are required to know who is their father and who is their mother.
8. Subject to compliance with all articles of the constitution, husband and wife have the right to celebrate a silver wedding after 25 years, and a golden wedding after 50 years.

Leading:

A toast to the family created today...

Leading:

My friends! We received two documents:

Resolution of the Women's Federation: The insidious "enemy" (name of the groom) snatched the fighter for women's freedom (name of the bride) from our ranks. We decide:

1. (name of the bride) make a report on the topic: “How to entangle a bachelor” and award her the Order of Family Happiness (his photo).
2. In financial work, observe the old division of labor. Give your husband the honorable right to earn money; take the thankless but important task of spending it upon yourself.
3. Avoid your husband's presence when buying clothes; your husband should not know the true price of things. This will save his nervous system from unnecessary shocks.
4. Cross the street where he wants, but take him where you want.
5. Do not let your husband go one step away from you, so that he does not stray from the righteous path. Don’t forget: the husband is the head, the wife is the neck, I’ll turn it wherever I want! But turn it so as not to lose your head.
6. Promise to give your husband a son or daughter if he raises them himself.

Resolution of the Bachelors Society: With deep regret we inform you that the bachelors have suffered a heavy loss: married (name of the groom), an honorary member of the Bachelors Society. With pain and indignation, we learned that recently, he often visited the address __ (the bride’s address), where he lured __ (the bride’s name, surname) into the net of love and persuaded her to legally marry. And therefore the society of bachelors decides:

1. Exclude (last name, first name of the groom) from the society of bachelors.
2. Sasha went through many tests, showed courage and bravery. We award (name of the groom) the Order of “Saint (name of the bride)” (photo of the bride).
3. We wish happiness to the “traitor” and his bride.
4. (name of the groom), remember: you took your wife - forget the silence!
5. Carry your wife in your arms, she will sit on your neck.
6. Don't argue with your wife, she will always think you are right.

Leading:

Dear guests, today is a very significant day, we have already met the heroes of the occasion, but if not for their parents, this day might not have happened.

A toast to the parents: Let's raise a cheerful spell to those who raised this glorious couple. Those who knew neither sleep nor peace in their life forged such great happiness for them. The parents are sad, a little sad. We will not judge them harshly for this. After all, this has long been their eternal destiny. Each of us would like to support them. We know that children have been married from end to beginning. Love has married them for many years. And you, without hiding your concerns in the least, must lead them on their marital journey. For your work and worries, for everything you could, Let the children bow to you to the ground. And we, in turn, are good guests, For your work as parents, we will simply tell you: Let time fly, but don’t grow old, Let your grandchildren grow, you become younger in soul, Good luck to you, a huge increase in health, We raise a festive toast for you. Parents are given a word of encouragement.

The wedding script is completely ready

The newlyweds, accompanied by witnesses, enter the carpet. Guests stand on both sides, building a “gate of happiness.”

Toastmaster:

Music sounds festive today! We congratulate you on ______________, Let the joy of the first meeting and love always remain in their memory. The newlyweds walk along the carpet, guests shower them with wheat.

Toastmaster:

Welcome! Welcome! Dear newlyweds! Your parents are greeting you, go up to them, bow to them for their affection, love, for raising and raising you, and today blessing you with a happy life. The newlyweds approach their parents, who stand at the end of their path and greet them with bread and salt (the groom's parents). The father of the bride holds two glasses of champagne tied with ribbon on a tray; mother of the bride on a platter - grain.

Toastmaster:

Dear young people! According to the old Russian custom, bread means prosperity in the house, and glasses of wine so that you can be together all your life and not be separated. Let these glasses together be inseparable forever, May the bride and groom be for many years to come throughout their lives! For joy and happiness for many years to come, kiss bread and accept the blessing of your parents. The groom's parents bless the newlyweds. The mother of the bride sprinkles grain on the newlyweds.

Mother of the bride:

I will sprinkle rye on you, So that your family will be good, I will sprinkle with spring wheat, So that you will be a friendly couple!

Toastmaster:

Now kiss your parents and drink the wine without untying your glasses. Now everything is according to the law, the marriage is sealed with crystal ringing. Let there be sweet and bitter in both directions. Dear parents, make way for your children. Dear and glorious newlyweds, come to the most honorable places at the wedding table. Dear guests, we welcome the newlyweds with music and applause. Young: _________ and ____________! Their witnesses: ___________ and _________! Dear parents, we ask you to take places of honor next to your children. There is music and applause for you.

Toastmaster:

Glory to our grandparents and relatives, And our honor and respect for them, So that happiness spreads two wings to them, So that their viburnum blooms forever. Our dear grandparents, we also ask you to take places of honor only next to your children. Thank you for coming to rejoice in the happiness of your grandchildren and children. There is music and applause for you. And you, invited guests, welcome guests, come to the bread, salt, to the red word, to a cheerful, ringing feast. Young people and guests are seated at tables

Toastmaster:

Dear guests! A wedding is a long affair, so choose a more comfortable place and a more cheerful neighbor whom you can woo. However, do not forget that there is someone to take care of you too. The seating at the table will be as follows: men - closer to the snack, women - closer to the drink. Every fifth person will be a commander. His responsibilities include: pouring, adding, but not forgetting himself. Now commanders, get the champagne ready! Pause.

Toastmaster:

Well, friends, we are all ready. The bride is in her wedding dress, The groom has long been in place And is faithful, as always, to the bride. Friends are sitting nearby at a feast, watching the wedding ceremony. Let us open the wedding, Tell everyone so we don’t forget... Dear ___________ and _________! (young) Today is a special day for you, One of the best days! Today you both chose the One path out of a hundred paths. To the sound of a crystal glass, To the splash of boiling wine, Congratulations on your legal marriage, We wish you happiness and goodness. Let every day spent nearby shine with turquoise for you, Then you don’t even need gold, And the stone seems like a star. Live together for up to two hundred years, So that to the kind envy of your friends There will be a love that you will not find, From year to year it becomes stronger! We will pour our glasses fuller and the first toast is ready: To the young, to happiness, we drink, ADVICE TO YOU AND LOVE! We drank.

Toastmaster:

Dear guests, while you are having a snack, I would like to announce the forecast for today's celebration. To the music.

Toastmaster:

Today expected:

Cloudy, wedding hurricane with champagne shower; t° above the table is 40°, the air is filled with family happiness; There is fog in the head at night, but it may clear up in the morning; We ask you all to have fun, otherwise we won’t let you get hungover. Everyone must drink the first 3 glasses, the rest will go without special invitation! After the 8th glass it is allowed: ladies, to restore their hair and “plaster”; gentlemen, take off your tie and unbutton the first top button... (of the shirt, of course) After the 18th glass, it is advisable to start singing, but... it is undesirable to elbow your way into your neighbor’s plate! If you don't rely on yourself, put a note with your home address in your pocket! Dance only with someone else's wife, leave yours to your best friend. If you can't dance standing, dance while sitting, but at the same time try not to step on your neighbor's hands! Don’t wipe your hands on the tablecloth; it’s better to do it on the dress of the lady sitting next to you! Place candy wrappers, fish and meat bones not on the table, but in your neighbor’s pocket! Remember: drink to the bottom, but don’t lie down! If you want, drink little or a lot, but so as not to forget the way to the bed! Everyone can drink, you just need to know: Why? When? and how many?

Witness:

Lights, golden fireflies, lit up with a bright light today. Relatives, relatives and friends gathered to celebrate with the newlyweds. Here we see cheerful faces, And everyone’s gaze is turned to the young, And we, friends, want to address them on this solemn day: Wedding witness: You walk hand in hand together, From now on there is only one road for you. You were just a bride and groom, and now you are husband and wife.

Witness:

Gold rings are put on, There is a seal on the wedding certificate, Well, young spouses, should we wish you on this day? Wedding witness: Happiness to you, friends - newlyweds, Joy and brightest days, You are now a family, and by law, both of you belong to it!

Toastmaster:

How did the word “family” appear? Once upon a time the Earth had not heard of him, but Adam said to Eve before the wedding: “Now I will ask you seven questions: - Who will give birth to children, my queen? And Eve quietly answered: “I am.” – Who will raise them, my goddess? And Eve meekly answered: “I am.” – Who will look after the grandchildren, oh my joy? And Eve still answered: “I am.” “Who will cook the food, iron the clothes, caress me, decorate my home?” “I, I,” she answered, inhaling, “I, I.” This is how “FAMILY” came into being. Dear _______ and _________! Peace, harmony and joy to you, Happiness and bad weather are all in half. Let the house glow with a kind smile, good wine, and a kind housewife. Good husband, good wife, Let's drink to friendship, family happiness. They drink. They bring the fire on a tray (dry alcohol burns in a ceramic bowl).

Toastmaster:

From our grandfathers the custom came to us to bring fire to the house of the newlyweds, so that they could light a reliable and familiar hearth of the family, a symbol of great love, and so that its fire would give warmth and light of love, and joint work in life, so that everyone in your house would be warm , And life was happy and interesting. And the more beautiful your life is, the hearth will burn brighter! The young people are given a fire accompanied by music and applause.

Toastmaster:

We raise a toast to you, to your love, to your happiness! We drank.

Toastmaster:

Guests! We ask for silence! You must accept the WEDDING CHARTER!

WEDDING CHARTER FOR GUESTS

If you came to the wedding, dressed up, put on perfume, you are now nothing more than a private at the wedding! Therefore, listen to the Wedding Charter, drink and eat between the lines! If the wedding breaks out: “BITTER!” You scream as much as you can, Wedding Rules, sigh quietly, Drink a glass and eat. If they say a toast to the table, immediately raise your glass! Support the initiative with dignity. If you can’t drink, rest! If a wedding song breaks out, You don’t know the words, don’t be timid. Sing without words, your neighbor will join you, Sing along - sing along! If dancing suddenly starts, walk in a circle, stand up boldly! Know that everyone benefits from a shake-up. If you don’t know how, squat! So, drink more, be sad less! Don't hide the traffic jams! Don't snack on flowers! And don’t be discouraged - you may get seriously hurt! Guests! Brothers! What is happening! Look at these faces! Everyone has drunk and is silent, but the wine is bitter, It’s only inconvenient to shout, But in reality: BITTER! BITTER!... Volleys of balloons. Guests drink while standing.

Toastmaster:

We give the floor for congratulations to the parents of the bride and groom! You have lived for many years - give them good advice!... Parents give advice.

Toastmaster:

Dear Parents! Today, tremendous changes are taking place in your life, allow us to present you with these Wedding Certificates, I certify your new titles: MOTHER-IN-IN-LIGHT, MOTHER-IN-IN-LAW, FATHER-IN-IN-LAW and MOTHER-IN-LAW.

WEDDING INSTRUCTIONS FOR MOTHER-IN-LAW

Listen to the Mother-in-law's Wedding order. You blessed love, What you were going for knew in advance, What you raised your son for, His family is your family And don’t grumble now in vain. My son's half-daughter-in-law, so love her like a son. He doesn’t notice all the mistakes, but if it’s wrong, he forgives everything, and there will be such harmony in the family that anyone will envy. They say that there is a lot of blood, They spoil the daughters-in-law's mother-in-law, But we hope that you, You will always be right, You will be fair to this beautiful girl. You have a daughter-in-law, It’s not a trifle, it’s not nonsense, Look at her right and left And the bride, but the queen. You must be silent in front of her, not grumble or lecture, you must help in everything, bring, bring, send.

WEDDING INSTRUCTIONS FOR MOTHER-IN-LAW

Don’t shed, dear, burning tears, Don’t feel sorry for your daughter until her time, She got the best husband Of all the modern husbands, Of all the guys that you knew, He will be the best son-in-law for you. You will forget the fears that you hid, Having started to waltz with him, He is a good and handsome guy, Agile and lively for everything, Not rude, not whimsical, In short, he is an earthly angel. You will find such a thing, where you can hardly, And he will not be too lazy, But on the condition that you will not read morality every day.

WEDDING INSTRUCTIONS FOR FATHER-IN-Father

Father-in-law - you are a hero - father! Be strong for your son-in-law! Invite them to visit more often, treat them to delicious beer! It is proposed to wash new ranks!.

Toastmaster:

Dear Parents! You are a little sad today, your children are leaving you. But, probably, this is how it is necessary, So that the hour of parting comes. How long has it been since they, timid and barefoot, walked under the table? Clumsy, inept, plowed their feet on the floor. And today, as adults, you had to part with your children. It’s bitter, it’s bitter for parents, it’s bitter, so that the children can live happily! BITTERLY!

Dear guests at our wedding, despite his age, Tortilla the turtle rose from the bottom of the pond to congratulate the newlyweds. To the song, Tortilla the turtle rides in on a chair.

Turtle:

Turtle song: “The surface of the ancient pond was covered with brown mud, I was like ______(bride)____, 300 years ago. He was naive and careless. _____ (groom)_____ had that look, And then they decided to create a new family.” Oh, how wonderful you are! Dear, glorious newlyweds! I want to give you this key. He is not simple. You will open the door to life for them, where happiness, love, respect and wisdom will greet you. The turtle gives the key to the young ones. Turtle: May life always be a paradise for you, And you always have the key to it. I wish you all the best, And remember my Wedding Order: May the sun always shine for you in your life together, May you have the opportunity to live like a honeymoon for the rest of your life. The turtle leaves.

Toastmaster:

Dear guests, I propose to raise a glass to ensure that peace, love, warmth and happiness always accompany this young couple! Well, what about the guests, they took their glasses together and raised them cheerfully! In order for them to be completely happy, the glasses must be drained to the bottom!... They drank. Break.

Toastmaster:

We ask everyone to sit down at the table, eat and drink! Morgunov, Vitsin and Nikulin enter singing. Song: We came to the wedding to congratulate you, to sing with you, to dance with you, to treat you all. We wish you all happiness and goodness, and now together we will all drink to the dregs. It’s not very bad to go out at a wedding, but it’s still better... to drink 100 grams. They treat the guests, dance and leave.

Toastmaster:

And now, dear guests, I propose to hear the love affair that was opened against our young people.

"All rise, the court is in session!"

The prosecutor enters. The guests sit down, the newlyweds stand, and the exit document and the marriage code are read out to the wife and husband.

Prosecutor:

Case No. 2507 is being heard. In the dock is a native of the city ___________, currently living at the address: st. , – and a native of ________, currently living at the address: st. , ____________. On the night of July 25, 1998, a citizen attacked a citizen. In turn, …….. tried in every possible way to cover up, for which she was sentenced to criminal liability under Article 187. But thanks to the excellent work of the police, this case was solved and brought to court. There were witnesses at the crime scene: ………. And ____________. Question to _____________: 1. You do not deny that on the night of July 25, 1998 you were at the address: st. ________________? 2. Question to the witness: 3. Where did you find ______________ on the night of July 25, 1998? 4. Question to the Wedding Witness: 5. Were ______ and ___ registered before? The court makes its decision! 1. Sentence ___________ and __________ under Article 198 of the Criminal Code. 2. For life __________ give your salary to _______. 3. From today declare: 4. ________ – husband, ________ – wife. 5. __________ bear the husband’s surname for life.

Prosecutor:

CODE ON MARRIAGE (wife)

To make your honeymoon last for five years, the Code is somewhat harsh It must be strictly observed. This code is very old, But you won’t find it in a century, And for each new couple It is good in its own way. Make the room cozy, so that your husband, when he comes home, will be absolutely satisfied with the situation and you. Learn to cook deliciously. Prepare a salad so that even the cabbage leaf in it looks like a grape. Women are divided into 3 parts: Body, thoughts and soul. In every part there is a drop of happiness, Give it to your spouse slowly. Always meet your husband with a smile, Look into his eyes, Tell him about all your mistakes, Ask him about all your affairs. And without laziness, tell him your business, so that in a friendly exchange, radiate a flow of warmth. Don’t drink, don’t torment your husband, For various matters, You are a wife, and you are a spouse, And not a rusty saw. We stand for the fact that there would be peace in the world, not war. This means that in your own apartment you must maintain peace. But don’t be a complete simpleton. If we say that your husband is lazy, you, removing only the shavings, sometimes plan him. But don’t plan it all at once, And not with empty phrases, But with example and demonstration, With your personal business acumen. If you sometimes don’t agree with your spouse’s opinion, Be as resilient as a twig, Don’t say “NO” or “YES.” Smile pleasantly at him And slyly stay in the shadows, Slowly, delicately turn the course of events. But a little boring So that the family paradise does not become, You always observe this code SMARTLY and HOLY

CODE ON MARRIAGE (for husband)

So that your honeymoon lasts 20 -30 years, the Code is somewhat harsh. Remember, it contains a big secret. After the wedding, sleep peacefully, Do not disturb your wife in her sleep, And behave with dignity, If there are wrong people in the room. Take care of the budget and maintain order. Don’t keep your money a secret, give it all to your wife. And over the years, and with deeds, do not forget about love, And call your wife Dear! If children appeared and more troubles, Both are to blame for this, But add more worries to yourself. Wash the baby's diapers, cook semolina porridge, don't spare your strength, don't say rude words. Always be shaved, have your hair cut, be neat and not fat, you won’t be offended by your wife, if you are silk like canvas. You must take care of your wife, bring hot coffee to bed and slippers at serving time. Milk the cow at first light, cook dinner and lunch, fix the iron and tiles, wash the apartment on Saturdays. Make the beds in the morning, wash the diapers clean, shave your mustache in time, wipe the kids’ noses. If you follow these tips, you will be the best husband in the world! The prosecutor leaves.

Toastmaster:

So let's drink to a good outcome of the exit case and the marriage code. Hymen: Peace to you all!

Toastmaster:

And here is Hymen himself - the ancient Greek God of newlyweds! Hymen:

I see you all have gathered to congratulate the newlyweds. But before we congratulate you, you must convince us. The fact is that the best family is being created here, friends! You tell me, __________, directly! Weren't you drunk for an hour when you gave your consent to the marriage? Once you decide you won’t back down? Will you be faithful, will you not stop loving? Give it everything, don’t be afraid! Do you swear to us? Bride: – YES

BRIDE'S Oath

Do you swear, wife, that you will protect and love your husband? Should I be friendly and affectionate with him all my life? Do you swear that at any cost You will be a good and faithful wife? Do you swear not to blow your lips on your husband, not to let the wind even blow on ________? Do you swear to bake cheesecakes more often, to pour the tea thicker and sweeter? And after lunch, when he lies down with the newspaper, swear that you won’t swear for this! Do you swear to spend your money carefully?

And if you borrow, will it be at least ten? The oath is taken at a formal wedding meeting in the presence of a large number of guests. One copy was issued. Keep the document forever, keep the oath. Hymen: Well, and you, brave groom, Who was named _____________ in childhood. Swear a hundredfold, as Hippocrates once did, that you will love your wife, that you will always be faithful to her, do you promise this?

Groom: – YES

Groom's Oath

Do you swear to be an exemplary husband, an Intercessor, a friend, a faithful helper? Do you swear to take care of her and always kiss her when leaving for work? Do you swear to give all the money to your wife, to help with advice on where to put it? You swear to eat the porridge without grimacing, if your wife puts salt “in reserve.” Yes, all sorts of things happen in life, the wife will spend half her pay on stockings.

Do you swear that your business is the side, She won’t go to work in bad times? The oath is taken at a formal wedding meeting in the presence of a large number of guests. One copy was issued. Keep the document forever, keep the oath.

Toastmaster:

I ask all guests to raise their glasses to friends, acquaintances, loved ones and relatives And drink to the love and charm of our couple To the happiness and health of the newlyweds!... We drank.

Toastmaster:

And now we will begin the presentation - the presentation of wedding gifts. Kind congratulations to guests, friends and senior instructions.

Stand up, young spouses! Your loved ones and relatives have come to you, to congratulate you, to present their gifts, Watch the performance of the wedding game!

You, dear guests! Do not put gifts together, You can give flowers to the bride, All congratulations, wishes to the groom, Everything else is a miracle to the chest. A man and a woman come in, dressed in Russian folk costumes, with a chest and a tray of cheese, and with them an accountant with accounts. CHEESE Sing: Oh, the box is empty, empty, There is no chintz or brocade in it. Oh, you, father-in-law and mother-in-law, get your gifts. Take the cheese, put it on the cheese, and say kind words to your children. Parents say kind words and give gifts. They sing: Oh, you, dear father-in-law and mother-in-law, We must please our son-in-law, Take out your gift to put in our chest. Take the cheese, put it on the cheese, and say kind words to your children. Parents say kind words and give gifts. They sing: Oh, you dear grandmothers and grandfathers, Get out your wallets, For the car, for the apartment. We need to scrape together for the grandchildren. Grandparents give gifts. They sing: Oh, brothers and sisters, Help the young people, They should also be put on stockings and blouses. Give gifts. They sing: Oh, you, guests, dear guests, What will you give! Add to diapers, undershirts for young people. They visit all the guests. They sing: The box is full, the box is full, There is chintz and brocade. There were a lot of congratulations here, Let’s shout: “BITTER!” from the heart. We gave you gifts, So that the chickens don’t peck at the money, So that you live more beautifully every year, So that your house would be a full cup. Live cheerfully and amicably, Have everything you need in life, Keeping the fire of holy love Until your golden wedding. They leave.

Toastmaster:

While the counting commission is summing up the results, I ask the young people to come to me. The young wife is both beautiful and slender, The groom is a match for her, The first dance of the newlyweds!

All guests should not be discouraged, dance until you drop! You came out into the circle of guests under a veil, Blinding the walls with whiteness, As if a tender cherry blossom had showered its leaves on you. You make the walls of the house turn white, How beautiful your wedding outfit is, How you dance smoothly, weightlessly, like a snow-white swan.

The young people and the guests are dancing. Break. Competitions and games are held.

Toastmaster:

We've danced, it's time to catch our breath. Let's take bread and salt! Eat bread and salt and listen to a kind word. Friends! Fill your glasses with wine, Let joy reign at our table! We drank. Postman Pechkin rides in on a bicycle. Pechkin: Hello! It's me, postman Pechkin. Can you tell me where the wedding is? Toastmaster: Postman Pechkin, you just happened upon her. Who do you want? Pechkin: Let's see now. So-so! Valuable parcel post, telegrams, parcel. Is reading. Wedding. To the bride and groom. But I won’t give them to them, they don’t have documents.

Toastmaster:

No, no, postman Pechkin. They just received a wedding certificate today. We are all witnesses. Pechkin: Well, if so, then I present the parcel to the bride /with a saw/. We give you a precious item, Hello to my husband with this item! The saw was not for firewood - for marital purposes, They drank with it until the roosters crowed. And in the morning he gets up, you drank again, Then you started to earn money. If he doesn’t like your dinner, take a drink instead of a tasty seasoning. The husband will eat and only praise! And you constantly try to saw! And as soon as you show your item, your husband will tenderly say: “Dove, hello!” And for you, groom, another little parcel /with iron fists/. We give you not chain mail, not a saber. You are not in a military battle, but at a wedding. They will be useful to you forever, so that your wife will bow before you. Wear them, never take them off! Otherwise, dear, you will be in trouble! And you will dream of devils all night long, If you take off your mittens. Make your wife cook delicious food, and always use a mitten to push her. Caress it more often with your prickly hand. Happiness will flow to you like a river. If you take your wife to the manufactured goods store, then put the mittens on the goods, The mittens will serve you well, If you store them, you will use them approximately! And in this parcel there is a bottle of champagne with paintings of the guests present here. But you will open it when your first child is born. Now listen to the telegrams. He reads out the telegrams and leaves.

Toastmaster:

So that the sun shines on the young And there is so much happiness in life, So that there is enough until the last days, Let's shout BITTER in chorus! Yes, young people kiss sweetly, but in life you have to divide both grief and joy in half. Moreover, in every family there is a distribution of responsibilities. Tell your fortune using a chamomile, you will find out your roles. Chamomile with responsibilities. The bride and groom take turns tearing off chamomile petals and reading out their duties.

Responsibilities

I will love you tenderly, but I will not forget to saw you. I’ll be the first in the kitchen in the morning, I won’t forget to wash the dishes. I will take care of you and undead you, I will not forget to wash your socks. I will give my entire salary, I will not forget to buy flowers. I’ll cook a delicious lunch, I won’t forget a bottle of beer. I will go to the theater with you, I won’t forget to take you to the cinema. I won’t create a scandal, I won’t forget the beautiful words. I will wash the diapers myself, I will not forget to walk with the child. I will be obedient, kind, faithful, I will not forget to give gifts. I’ll go shopping, I won’t forget to wash the floors. I will adore you, And I will forget about men. I will love you all my life, I will forget to think about women.

We have heard that you will cope with the responsibilities in your life, and now you will overcome the obstacle that will come your way. Pull the ribbon, the groom must carry the bride in his arms.

Toastmaster:

Great, just well done! And here is the counting commission, which will announce the result to us (announces). But who will we give the family budget to? Friends, we will not be in order unless we solve the riddle, Which of the newlyweds should be the head! And we’ll probably find out if we treat them to a loaf of bread. Explain that bread must be broken; whoever has the most is the leader.

Toastmaster:

And now, as a sign of the unification of the two clans and your hospitality, treat everyone with bread. But that is not all. Let our young people know the secrets of wedding plans, That storks often bring children into empty nests, Or leave them in cabbage, Or bring them straight into the house, So that neither peace nor sadness may arise in that house. So that chicks can be found more often, transforming your family, as has been the case for a long time in Rus', you must clear up the mess. The young people treat the guests to bread and porridge. Toastmaster: And we will drink this wedding glass to the bottom, So that the husband is the best of husbands And the wife is the best. We drank.

Toastmaster:

While we were drinking, walking, dancing, having fun, Evgeniy and Irina did not waste time; they successfully completed courses at the Family Construction Academy. And we want to present them with diplomas. Diploma of the bride This “diploma” was issued to someone living in the city, down the street, in house no. This paper claims to have taken a course in marriage and family sciences. During the training I demonstrated the following knowledge:

Food preparation – 5 Laundry removal – 5 Family vision – 5 Laughter science – 5 Humor science – 5

This “diploma” claims that she was transferred from the girlhood department to the family institute of life department. The diploma gives you the right to become a heroine mother in the future. Diploma of the bride and groom This “diploma” was issued to a person living in the city of ___________, on the street, in house no., apt. No. This document claims to have taken a course in Marriage Science. During the training he showed the following knowledge:

Making money – 5 TV football hockey – 5 Fishing – 5 Computer skills – 5 Scrubbing – 5

The “diploma” claims that he has been transferred from the bachelors department to the family life institute department and gives him the right to become a father in the future. Presentation, drank.

Toastmaster:

Let's check how our young people know each other. For the groom: recognize the bride by kissing (the groom is seated on a chair, three girls are called, he is blindfolded; the bride always kisses). To the bride: recognize the groom by his hands (five men). Why are you guests laughing? Now we will check you too! Guests: recognize your wife by her knee, by touch (they call one married woman and several girls, the girls sit on a bench in a row, cross-legged, the man is blindfolded). Let's raise our glass to the one who became the chosen one, whose beauty Eugene preferred and in whom he found many virtues. We wish, Ira, to always be loved! Consider the union of hearts indissoluble! And let the husband report every day that he dotes on his wife, that for him she is more beautiful than everyone else, for (name) – our bride! We drank.

Toastmaster:

We have problems in life, However, everyone cares about blood in life. Openly to some, and secretly to others, Simple feelings - friendship and love. Love... Is there anything else that brings so much light to life? She does not like boredom and peace, Love is not just a feeling - a craft! So let's drink to those who are waiting, forgetting that there are others. Whom it is impossible not to love, For those for whom only one eye shines with love forever. For that love that transforms life, That makes the heart beat again, For that love that conquers troubles, We drink to true love!!! We drank.

Toastmaster:

The young people ask you to stand up and invite you to dance! With its shining beauty, our young swan invites all honest people to dance. We had a drink, a break, games, competitions.

Toastmaster:

We are announcing a beauty contest. Beauties under No. 1, No. 2, No. 3. (being built) So, let me introduce: beauties No. 1 - Marisabel (comes forward); No. 2 – Just Maria (comes forward); No. 3 – Manka Bond (comes forward). But men will not forgive us if we hold the competition without them. Therefore, /Women are divided into 3 parts: at the same time we will hold a competition “A man is a handsome man” called “Strength and Dexterity”. Let me introduce the participants: handsome men No. 1 - Arnold Schwarzenegger; No. 2 – Sylvester Stolloni; No. 3 – Damchik for you. We are announcing a music competition. Participants dance a dance. Girls invite boys. The crucial moment has arrived. Select the perfect couple and award prizes. The role of beauties is played by men in disguise, the handsome men by women; The ideal couple is identified and prizes are awarded.

Toastmaster:

We ask everyone to sit down at the table, and eat and drink! Hey men, take your places Don't forget your ladies. Look at them: How the groom is drawn! And the bride is no secret, She blossomed like poppies. Let the bottle splash with foam, Let them laugh out loud, Let everything you want come true in your family life! So that you newlyweds remember this evening, So that bachelors, dudes, understand the happiness of marriage! Kiss the newlyweds, May those kisses be countless! Otherwise, the poor invitees will have to drink bitterly and eat bitterly! Today you got married, It’s the happiest day in the world for you. Since you lit a beacon of love, May it continue to shine for you all your life. Our wedding evening is coming to an end. For the ceremonial farewell of the newlyweds, I ask everyone to stand. We greeted the newlyweds solemnly, let us also celebrate them solemnly. Our dear witnesses, you have to see off the young, Walk happily on the earth, Bring love, songs and hopes, And your radiant youth. May Mother Fatherland joyfully and tenderly Bless another family. And today I give you a farewell message to you young people, And those in love with each other We say: “Good journey, dear friends, Be forever worthy of each other.” We are seeing off the young ones. Let's continue the wedding together! You are guests, little guests, Don’t sit like stumps, Drink, eat, have fun. Whatever your heart desires. Come again tomorrow at 12 o'clock! (second day)

2nd day

In the doorway there is a table at which the Opohmetologist, Head Aibolit Pokhmelyaevich, and the Happy Lover are sitting. On the table are bottles of lemonade, vodka, wine, water, champagne. Labels on the bottles:

Lotteries for the second day

A potion of love A potion of happiness A potion for betrayal A potion for indigestion A potion for headaches A potion for 100 diseases A potion for separation

Guests buy 100 grams, go into the hall, and those who wish buy wedding lottery tickets from the cashier. When everyone has gathered, invite them to the table, but the place of the bride and groom is taken by the “false groom and bride.” Ask guests to buy the place of the bride and groom./ Toastmaster: Good afternoon, dear friends! Here is another happy family. We express hope and full confidence that this family will be beautiful, happy and kind all their lives. Dear ____________ and ______________! We congratulate you on your special day, pour golden wine into glasses, wish that everything in life is in order, that there are no storms and everything goes smoothly, that you live together, love each other, that children are born and bring joy to the house, You will replace “I” with the big word “WE”. FAMILY means a lot in life. So let's drink to the new young family, to their love! We drank. They serve noodles, but there are no spoons.

Toastmaster:

The guests sat down, the guests were waiting: Why don’t they bring spoons? A gypsy woman runs in with spoons. A gypsy woman sells spoons.

Toastmaster:

There are especially memorable days in a person's life, But among the days of any century, We remember our own weddings. Years, decades will pass, But HE, SHE, are sacredly remembered. Happy day of their engagement. HE is the husband now, SHE is the wife. So let's drink to them! For the health of the young! For a new family, for a fun wedding! We drank.

Toastmaster:

They say love is not verbose: suffer, think, figure it out. In my opinion, this is all conditional, we are people, we are not crucians. And if you really want to make your head spin with happiness, Speak up, people, say the best words! Wedding witness: Both the groom and the young lady may live for 100 years without knowing any troubles. So that they respect each other, So that they love and help, So that families honor the laws And love their parents. Wedding witness: May your love not melt away like smoke, You, husband, do not forget that you were born a man, And a woman is your weaker half. Give her flowers, talk about love, take a heavier load for yourself. Wedding witness: Let the wife be affectionate and kind, She will guard the family hearth. Feed your hubby more deliciously, then you will enter his heart more firmly. Wedding witness: May peace and tranquility settle in the family, May you live until your golden wedding! Let every day be lived in harmony, And may God grant you to live such a life, Which is similar to a good song, And a song is not easy to put together.

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Comic rules for wedding guests

Look, dear guests, what color clothes you came to the holiday in.

Who came dressed in red? These people are joyful, beautiful, independent, and value the fullness of life. Always ready for love, in the sense of a great feeling. They prefer to spend their holidays in the south.

Who is wearing white clothes? Often naive, honest people, with an untarnished reputation, kind and decent. They prefer to relax among snowy plains and polar bears.

The black color of clothing indicates that we are dealing with talented people who are capable of bewitching absolutely everyone. They love black caviar and black coffee. Sexually attractive, fertile in everything! They like to relax at their lovers' dachas.

Blue clothes guarantee their owners noble origin and romance. These are loyal, nice people, they worry about literally everything and everyone. They like to relax everywhere, just to fly by plane or sail on a ship.

The green color of the outfit indicates that these are people overwhelmed by hope and dreams. Always fresh and attractive. For relaxation they prefer the nearby forest.

Who came dressed in yellow? These people are pleasant, warm, romantic, but... insidious. Gold is preferred for jewelry. They strive to take a place in the upper class. People like to relax on Golden Sands. They love to listen to “The Golden Ring”, they like to be called “Zolotse”.

Added after 16 minutes Getting to know each other. Greetings.

Who came to our holiday? Clap your hands! And who just relax, don’t be shy either.

Whoever came “tipsy”, clap your hands. Who didn't have time to drink? Don't be shy either.

Who came in a skirt today? Clap your hands, and whoever came in trousers, don’t be shy either.

Who washed the day before? Clap your hands. And whoever hasn’t gone to the bathhouse, don’t be shy either!

Who has a snub nose? Clap your hands. For those who don't have a snub nose, don't be shy either.

Are you in the best mood? Clap your hands! For those who have zero, don’t be shy either!

The game is a scream. “Pour me a glass”

Divide the hall into two parts. One side says the phrase - “Give the guests some vodka.” The second - “Pour yourself a glass!”

Wedding guests: rules of behavior

A wedding is a test not only for the main culprits of this event - the newlyweds. Guests also have certain responsibilities at a wedding, the main one of which is to follow the rules of wedding etiquette.

Yes! There are such rules, and they are based on common mistakes and incidents in order to avoid, for example, a brother-in-law snoring in a bowl of salad or aunties singing under the wedding table. Nobody likes to take chicken bones out of their jacket pocket, hidden there by a tipsy Marya Ivanovna, or to watch San Sanych twist the tablecloth on which he had previously knocked over a glass of vodka.

Speaking seriously, the rules for guests at a wedding are important and dictated by one single desire - not to overshadow the holiday for the young.

The leading Internet search portal www.4banket.ru recalls these simple rules.

How should the newlyweds' loved ones behave?

If the actions of parents at a wedding are almost completely regulated by the ritual side of the celebration, then wedding etiquette makes slightly more demands on the witness, as well as friends of the bride and groom, than on any other guests.

As a rule, the outfits of these people make them stand out from the rest of the guests:

• The best man and the witness, who can also be called “best man” and “groomsman,” most often tie a special ribbon on themselves. Or they wear special flowers that are pinned to the buttonhole or bodice of the dress. The friend, like the bride, can choose a dress with a floor-length skirt.
• In a European-style wedding, the bridesmaids and groomsmen, who play a secondary role, often wear the same outfits. So, for the groom's friends, suits of the same color and cut are chosen, and for the bridesmaids, dresses are made to order.

At a wedding, the best man and groomsman are often the main organizers or assistants. According to etiquette, the witness is required to accompany the groom to the bride price, to the registry office, and also at the banquet. In this case, it is the witness who is given the wedding rings for safekeeping.

How a groomsman should behave at a wedding and what duties to perform depends on the wishes of the bride. Usually the most devoted friend or sister is chosen to play the role of groomsman, who helps the bride with choosing an outfit, as well as with hair and makeup on the wedding day. But often a professional stylist is invited for the latter. At the same time, during the wedding, the witness should not remember or somehow illuminate the bride’s past, because what may seem funny to her may be regarded by the groom’s parents as something indecent. And such a disclosure of the past will cause family conflicts, for which the bride will not be grateful.

Wedding invitation rule

It says: when you receive a wedding invitation, be sure to respond to the newlyweds.

Firstly, this is the law of politeness.

Secondly and thirdly, “silent people” who do not react in any way to the invitation they receive cause anxiety and discomfort for the young. And they already have enough pre-wedding excitement!

If you accept the invitation, write or communicate it verbally. At the same time, warn in what part of the wedding day you will be expected - will you be at the registration office at the registry office or will you appear only at the wedding banquet. The newlyweds need to calculate the size of the wedding procession and the transfer of guests from the restaurant.

If it is impossible to accept the invitation, it is all the more necessary to inform the newlyweds so that they have time to adjust the list of those present at the wedding banquet.

Note : married couples always receive an invitation for two.
But if you are not yet married, the desire to bring a friend to the wedding should definitely be discussed with the inviting party.

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Wedding dress rules

According to the rules of wedding etiquette, none of the guests can or should compete with the bride. The white color of the outfit is her monopoly. Invited ladies can choose a two-color outfit, where white will appear, but only in an additional, and not the main, background capacity.

It is also not customary for ladies to wear black and red outfits to a wedding. Black evokes mourning associations, which does not suit a wedding at all. And red attracts too much attention from the opposite sex. And the dominant figure at the wedding, we remind you, is the bride!

For the same reason, too deep necklines and extreme minis are not allowed.

Note : if you receive an invitation to a themed wedding, you should try to dress according to the theme indicated in the invitation.

Wedding etiquette for the bride and groom

If a young husband wants to make a proper impression on everyone present, then his actions should be dictated not only by rituals, but also by the rules of etiquette. How should a groom behave at a wedding? First of all, be:

• gallant,
• polite,
• neat,
• reserved,
• cheerful.

He must also support the bride in everything, actively participate in the competitions proposed by the presenter for the groom, and not leave the bride alone. As for dancing, in different traditions the groom is allowed different behavior:

• He can only dance with the bride.
• He can also dance with their mothers.
• And in some cases, it is believed that a wedding is the last day when the groom can dance with any unmarried girl. In this case, he is simply obliged to dance with each of the girls present.

What to do at your own wedding is up to everyone to decide for themselves. If something happens, you can consult with the toastmaster or with your parents.

As for the rules on how a bride should behave at a wedding, here is the advice:

• Be ready for the ceremony a little earlier than it is scheduled to take place.
• Have spare powder, mascara and lipstick with you.
• During the photo, hold the wedding bouquet just below the waist so as not to cover the dress.
• Have a duplicate bouquet of artificial flowers. This one will be easier to throw, and if the first one is damaged, it will be a good replacement.

But most importantly, during the wedding, only one thing is required of the bride - to be and feel the happiest and most desirable.

Children at a wedding

If the invitation kindly does not indicate the name of your child, then, by default, you are expected without one.

A wedding, in the classic version, is a long and grueling event that not every adult can endure, let alone a child, especially if he is small and still needs a nap during the day, for example.

Providing the baby with the necessary nutrition, sleep schedule, necessary care and attention - all this is difficult at a wedding. But you also want to relax, dance and wait for the fireworks, instead of leaving the holiday in its midst, just because it’s time to put the child to bed and he’s exhausted.

Note : sometimes newlyweds, wanting to see people dear to them at the wedding, provide some amenities for their children - a separate children's table, animator services. But this doesn’t happen at every wedding.

Wedding Gift Rule

It is not customary to come to a wedding without a gift. Moreover, a wedding gift is not just a bouquet of flowers for the bride, it is something significant, commensurate with the event.

One of the most common wedding gifts is money. The amount in the envelope should, at a minimum, cover the newlyweds' expenses for your wedding food.

If you are planning a gift with a subject matter, then before choosing it, it is advisable to find out the wishes of the newlyweds. Perhaps they need an iron, but they already have the tea set you're targeting.

A very functional principle of a wedding gift exists in the West. There, the young people, without any embarrassment, attach to the invitation a list of items that they want as a wedding gift and the address of the store where these items can be purchased. Convenient for both guests and young people who are insured against duplicate gifts.

Note : when going to a wedding, stock up on small banknotes. They will come in handy when fun competitions and wedding cake sales begin.