The wedding date is inexorably approaching. But there are more and more things to do, as if no one had been doing anything for the last few months. It's time to wrap things up and start having fun. Now that the wedding is just around the corner, it’s time to think about holding a cool party – a bachelor party.
This is truly where you can have a blast! You should definitely use this opportunity. Traditionally, a bachelor party is held so that the groom can say goodbye to his bachelor life. He invites friends, everyone has fun exclusively in the company of men.
When organizing a fun party, there are a number of things you need to consider. Almost anyone can just get together and drink a box of vodka. But how can you turn this evening into an unforgettable adventure, so that later your friends will remember with nostalgia how cool it was “back then”?
What does a bachelor party consist of?
There are things without which organizing a bachelor party is impossible, although it can be arranged, but it will no longer be a bachelor party. So, the key components.
Friends
We invite only the best. Some people believe that the more people at the bachelor party, the better. But no, this is not an ordinary party. We call only proven people, with whom you can go through thick and thin. Sometimes force majeure situations occur at a bachelor party that no one expected; it is important that your friends do not “burn you down.”
Alcohol
For which, in fact, we are gathering (just kidding). But there is no way to do without it. It’s good when you have a choice - vodka, wine, cognac. Everyone has different tastes. Although if you know who prefers what, it’s even easier. You can also buy beer. And don’t forget to stock up on mineral water, a jar of cucumbers with brine, maybe ayran (real, mountain) - it will come in handy in the morning.
Entertainment
You won't just drink, will you?! Consider pocketing balls as a fun activity for everyone to do at cards. And if you choose a suitable place for the evening, then this in itself will be entertainment. For example, some people throw a bachelor party in a bathhouse or billiard room.
As an option for a bachelor party - a game of paintball
What it is?
Before the wedding, you should definitely have a bachelor party - this is the opinion of many modern guys. Throwing a party in honor of the groom is a unique tradition that has long taken root in many countries around the world. As a rule, such an event is quite fun. A group of friends led by the groom gathers, and everyone celebrates the last days of their friend’s bachelor life.
Usually a bachelor party is held in such a way that later the groom, and all the other friends, have something to remember. The young groom should experience all the delights of a wild, bachelor life at this party organized in his honor.
There is a stereotype that at a bachelor party a variety of alcohol must flow like a river, there must be crowds of dancers ready to do anything, and so on. Usually this opinion is shared by brides who always oppose such parties. But very often, bachelor parties go completely differently than the girls think. The event can be interesting, fun and completely within the bounds of decency. Let's look at some ideas on how to organize such a bachelor party. But more on that a little later.
Are strippers necessary?
Many guys believe that this is a mandatory “attribute” of a bachelor party. These hot girls come out of the cake or ring the doorbell and blow your mind with their dances. It’s up to you whether to invite them or not, decide after consulting with your friends. But if the bride is too jealous, it’s hardly worth doing this, even if you try so that she doesn’t find out. Sometimes friends make an agreement and invite a stripper without the knowledge of the groom to make a surprise. The girl “spuds” the groom in every possible way; of course, she doesn’t go to extremes (in most cases).
Interesting ideas
In general, there are a lot of ideas, it’s impossible to cover them all at once.
So, in one evening you can combine several interesting programs, for example, skydiving, karting, and then go to the pub. Or, play paintball, and then go to the dacha (hotel) for beer and barbecue. In any case, you get both vivid impressions and relaxation - time well spent.
Not to mention the opportunity to place an order for a professional bath attendant who can perform the ablution ritual.
Where to have a bachelor party
This is where you can show your wits and creative thinking to the fullest! For a good company, it is not so important where to gather, but if you still think about this issue, the bachelor party will be remembered for a long time. Here are some options.
- Karaoke . Are you afraid that people will laugh at your voice? You don’t have to sing this way, but even if you do that, it’s okay, it will be more fun. Karaoke bars have stylish ambiance, so your photos will turn out beautiful.
- In the natural environment . If you are incorrigible fishermen, then you can spend this night near a lake or river. Just be careful so that no one gets drunk and wants to drown themselves. You can also settle down in the forest - build a hut and barbecue. Descents along a fast-moving river are also an option, but only if you are sober. So you have quite a wide choice.
- Yacht . A bachelor party on the water in the summer heat has its advantages - coolness, clean water, fresh air. An alternative is to hire several boats and have a race. When the competition is over, everyone goes to the cafe and has fun there.
- VIP restaurant . Some guys say that this only happens once in a lifetime, hire an expensive restaurant and party there all night with their friends. Yes, that's also an option. Just don’t forget that with a modest budget you won’t be able to relax like that. Although, who knows, if you have real friends, they can throw a bachelor party together, or rather, with money.
- At home . If there is not much money, then this is logical. You can also have a lot of fun at home, but if you live in an apartment building, then be prepared for the neighbors to be unhappy. If one of your friends has a private house or cottage, perhaps he will solve this problem.
- Travelling by car . You can create a route and go on a trip. But keep in mind that drinking under such conditions will be difficult.
- Reconstruction of historical events . Nowadays there are many groups that are engaged in reconstructing some historical events and taking direct part in them. Don’t want to feel like a WWII hero or a Russian soldier at Borodino? Fight to the last, and when “ours” win, go and drink in joy.
- If your budget allows, you can go to another country . Only then will the bachelor party last for several days. Will your fiancee go for this?
How to organize?
It’s quite possible for a large and noisy group of men to go to the nearest bar and just have fun there. But everyone probably wants such a party to be somehow unusual and memorable for the groom and his friends for a long time. There are several ideas that will definitely be useful to all those who are planning to organize a bachelor party in the near future.
Agree that every man loves extreme sports and speed. Therefore, you can organize a bachelor party in some unusual place, for example, organize real go-kart racing. All guys love to race cars, and karting is the best option.
It is quite possible to organize a small buffet there, so that later you can celebrate the victory of one of your friends together. In addition, you can pre-order original and commemorative diplomas for each participant in this impromptu competition. Of course, the main diploma should go to the groom.
If the groom doesn’t like cards, but loves speed, then it’s quite possible to go out of town and drive ATVs to his heart’s content in nature. And if the season has already begun, then you can go on snowmobiles. Being in nature, it is quite possible to arrange a kind of quest. You can organize everything in advance, and they will help you make cards with interesting tasks. It will be fun to drive around in nature, go through various obstacles, and eventually find the main prize. At the end of such a quest, you can present the groom with a gift prepared in advance, or have a party in a forest house. The guy will definitely like this bachelor party.
Things you shouldn't do at a bachelor party
A bachelor party is a bachelor party, but some things are not recommended. Otherwise there will be a quarrel. For example, you shouldn’t try to meet any girl. Before you know it, something juicy will happen. How will you look into the eyes of your beloved later? Will you just watch how your conscience behaves at this time? The bride will leave you and leave.
You should also not try to sneak into a bachelorette party. This is often what guys do. Or have you forgotten that while you're having fun, your lover is doing the same thing? If a crowd of men ends up in a crowd of beautiful maidens, then the two holidays will merge into one. This is wonderful, perhaps it will be more fun for some, but farewell to the bachelor lifestyle will never happen. In addition, you will be under the watchful eyes of your beloved bride. You will have to limit yourself in many things. Do you need it? So don’t disturb each other, let everyone celebrate in their own “half.”
A professional photographer will capture the best shots of your holiday
Alcoholic drinks are one of the key components of a bachelor party. Surely everyone will be very “under the influence”, and the next day the head will make itself felt. Therefore, it is best to plan your bachelor party in advance; you do not need to get ready the day before the wedding, it is better to do it a week in advance. You will have time to relax, get yourself in order and “collect” your thoughts. It is important to look not only cheerful, but also cheerful on your wedding day. It’s unlikely that this will happen the day after the bachelor party, and besides, fumes are inevitable.
You should not try to take photographs yourself or film what is happening on a video camera. You won't get good material. It is better to negotiate with a professional photographer, he can take beautiful shots before the party starts.
When is it held?
As a rule, after the engagement and before the wedding day, the newlyweds have at least a month left. Therefore, a bachelor party can be arranged on any day before the celebration. Of course, it is better not to organize such events just a day or two before the wedding itself. After all, the last week before such an important event is always stressful, and there are still a lot of things that need to be done before the wedding. Therefore, the ideal time to hold a bachelor party is to organize it two weeks before the wedding itself.
If there is very little time left, you can organize a party for the groom at least five days before the wedding. This is just enough time for all the bachelor party participants to recover after the party and attend the wedding in full health.
Bachelor Party Invitations
You need to invite someone to a bachelor party not today, when there are only a few hours left before it, but in advance, two to three weeks in advance. People need to plan their affairs. If you tell them too late, they may not get to your party, even if they really want to.
The invitation format can be at your discretion. You can send postcards, although men are unlikely to do this, but just for fun. It’s not worth sending an email, but what if they don’t notice it? It is best to call a mobile phone.
If you have good friends, and your budget is limited, then let them help as much as they can. Only this information needs to be presented tactfully. For example, if you want to go fishing, let one bring the gear, another take care of the dishes, a third about the tent, etc.
Have you decided on the exact date for your bachelor party? Check to see if you or your friends have anything important to do that day, such as work. It will be very disappointing if someone cannot come.
Have fun, but don't go overboard. Congratulations to you!
Tips for organizing a bachelor party
To begin with, we will give you advice from experienced wedding planners so that you can have a bachelor party without any complications, according to all the rules:
- This event is for your closest friends and brothers! No unfamiliar colleagues, neighbors, only those people who know the groom well and enjoy his trust;
- Usually, the organization of the bachelor party is undertaken by the future witness at the wedding and other closest friends of the groom who decided to surprise him. Therefore, it is better for the groom himself to inform his friends in advance if he has specific preferences regarding the bachelor party, so that the surprise is truly pleasant;
- The bachelor party can be financed by the groom or the witness himself. But more often than not, all participants chip in. And this is fair, in this case the evening will not cause serious waste for anyone;
- The bride needs to be warned about the time and place of the bachelor party. Let her not worry in vain; she will know that her fiancé has decided to spend the evening with friends. A conversation on this topic will show the future wife that her chosen one is serious about the wedding and does not want to upset her before the celebration;
- It is better to hold a bachelor party not before the wedding itself, but a little in advance, at least two or three days in advance. Such a party usually involves gatherings with strong drinks until late at night. And the morning can be hard. It’s better to leave yourself a day to improve your health and not suffer from headaches and lack of sleep at the wedding;
- You need to take care of transportation if the bachelor party is taking place far enough from home. None of the groom's friends should drive while drunk!
- Talk to your friends so that no one takes photos or videos. Why do you need such compromising evidence? Or you can take a few selfies at the very beginning of the holiday, while the guests are behaving appropriately and looking presentable.
Pre-Wedding Party Ideas
Each nation brings its own traditions and ideas to a bachelor's party. In European countries it is more rampant. For example, a French groom is obliged to fulfill all the whims of his friends.
Their main goal is to say goodbye to their bachelor life as well and brightly as possible. Therefore, they welcome long trips, casinos, strip clubs and other types of entertainment.
Oddly enough, in Russia the bachelor party is viewed more conservatively . The gathered friends do not have the goal of seducing and getting their friend drunk. They just want to have fun congratulating their friend on his upcoming wedding ceremony.
The most popular bachelor party ideas are:
- Home gatherings are a common type of party. The groom calls his friends together and buys a set of beer, fish and chips. Stronger drinks are often used. For entertainment, you can choose to watch football or another sporting event. Many people prefer to just chat and have fun. This is a meeting for more conservative men who do not really like noisy feasts and going out to establishments.
- A beer bar is a meeting not much different from a home one. The only change is a change of scenery. For variety, you can choose a bar that has board games. Then, after several glasses of beer, the men compete, choosing the most dexterous and strongest.
- Outdoor recreation – what man doesn’t love nature with all the accompanying entertainment? Fishing, hunting, shooting - this is just a partial list of activities that can engage men in nature. In the end, it’s enough to just grill kebabs and sit around the fire and have pleasant conversations. This type of recreation is ideal for the warm season and active men, since it requires more serious preparation from everyone.
- Bowling and billiards are affordable games presented in a wide range in shopping centers and entertainment venues. Before organizing such a meeting, you should ask your friends how much they like such sports. If no one has ever played bowling or billiards, then you should abandon such an idea. This bachelor party is suitable for a small company.
- The bathhouse is a traditional place for men's meetings and gatherings. Back in the 90s, our parents went to the bathhouse with brooms and beer. Crayfish, fish, chips or other snacks are suitable as a snack.
- Paintball – active and athletic young men prefer to spend their time profitably. By breaking into several teams, you can find out who will be stronger. And if you also invite the bride and her friends, it turns out to be a very fun and interesting event.
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Currently, there are a lot of ideas for a bachelor party.
It is worth starting from several indicators when choosing:
- financial opportunities - absolutely all events cost money. You can resolve this issue with your friends by deciding who pays for what. Or you can pay for everything yourself, thereby generously gifting your guests;
- personal preferences of the company - absolutely every group of friends is different. Some people are into sports, others are into computers. The groom's task is to choose a party that can satisfy absolutely everyone. Since the young man has known his friends for many years, it will not be difficult for him to choose what will suit them perfectly.
