A wedding is an important event that is carefully planned, right down to choosing the best day of the week. It is clear that it will not be possible to change fate by moving the wedding from Friday to Saturday, but the signs do not promise this. This is rather an insurance policy, like other superstitions associated with the appearance of a new family.
Astrology states that each of the seven days is identified with a patron planet. The celestial body is capable of influencing events, giving them positive or negative shades. Let's consider them all to choose the most favorable one.
Signs about a wedding on Monday
The beginning of the week is under the control of the Moon. She is a symbol of family, children, home. Having a celebration on a “hard day” is a good idea.
But such a philosophy is not found everywhere. Orthodox Jews are categorically against getting married on Monday. According to holy scripture, God began to create our world on this day, but never once uttered the word “good.”
The Earth's satellite creates a subtle but strong emotional connection between people. At the same time, we should not forget about the other side, which no one has yet been able to look at. Family life promises to be changeable, stormy with periods of emotional uplift and peace. The only thing that will not exist in the union is indifference.
Determining the wedding date
Before you run to the registry office, you need to decide on the number yourself. Of course, we need to consider neutral days that are not associated with sorrowful memories. It is worth avoiding those days when one of your relatives has gone to another world. A strong connection is formed in the subconscious about this, which means that the wedding moment will inevitably be overshadowed. Choosing a wedding date is not as easy as it seems at first glance. It is necessary to deeply analyze the current situation.
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What astrologers say
These specialists develop the most successful dates for creating a family union. For this purpose, an in-depth analysis of the position of the Moon and the Sun is carried out. If we turn to the symbolic meaning of marriage, then the husband represents the Sun, and the wife represents the Moon. To understand which day will be successful, you need to determine when the Moon will be in the zodiac sign under which the girl was born, and the Sun in the sign under which the guy was born. But there are also general recommendations.
You cannot plan a wedding if the Moon is in the signs of Virgo, Scorpio or Capricorn. Lunar eclipses are also serious obstacles to the creation of a new unit of society.
Choice according to numerology
Taking into account the individual meanings of numerical symbols, you can attract good luck into your life. Numerologists advise paying attention to numbers, especially at the moment of making fateful decisions. Experts say that it is useful to carry out all difficult undertakings from the first day - this makes it easier to get involved in the matter, to feel inner confidence and support. A wedding is a serious stage in the life of every person. If the celebration is planned for the first days of the month, this thought inspires and adds strength. But there are also unlucky dates that you should try to avoid in every possible way. These include birthday, December 31, January 1, January 13.
If there are personal transition periods, then these are also not suitable for holiday planning. Otherwise, the marriage will not last long. No one wants to discover after a while that family life is empty and does not bring joy, and the best years were wasted on an alliance with a stranger. The date of particular note is February 29th. Since it occurs only once every 4 years, the brain does not take it seriously. Family life will present many surprises and be filled with difficulties.
Thus, it is better to have a wedding at the right time. In former times, a young couple relied entirely on their parents' will. Now the opinion of father and mother is not so important for lovers. You have to think for yourself, but remember existing superstitions.
What awaits after the wedding on Tuesday
This day is patronized by the red planet. Astrologers advise refraining from making serious decisions under the influence of a militant god. His uncompromising and hot temper will bring conflicts, misunderstandings and aggression into the union.
Mars cannot be appeased; it does not negotiate and does not make concessions. No warmth, harmony or peace. Spouses will strive to dominate the marriage, regardless of possible losses. Tuesday is suitable for those who agree to turn family life into a battlefield.
In rare cases, when both partners have a tough character and are prone to showdowns, they will passionately quarrel and make peace throughout their lives. But, according to many years of observations, couples quickly separate, having exhausted their emotional reserves. Mars prefers to destroy rather than unite.
When the church doesn't marry
Certain days are not considered favorable for marriage ceremonies. They need to be taken into account in advance to avoid any unpleasant surprises. You should not do rash actions or rush to make a decision. To understand how to act, you need to turn to the Orthodox calendar. A good Christian takes care of observing all the rules and prepares for changes in advance.
Days of the week
If the wedding is scheduled for Monday, then this is a sign of wealth. According to legend, spouses become one and acquire powerful energy. Do not forget that according to church canons, wedding ceremonies cannot be held on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
The fact is that before the onset of fasting days (Wednesday and Friday), people should think about mental cleansing and spiritual transformation.
Saturday is also prohibited - this day is considered unfavorable for creating a marriage. The happiest unions are usually created on Sunday. If you want to isolate yourself and your significant other from unnecessary trials in life, you should pay attention to the final day of the week.
Religious holidays and fasts
The church will not perform weddings during Lent or Easter. Holy Week is especially prohibited. The fact is that when the brightest holiday approaches, believers should strive to live it responsibly, spending spiritual strength on self-improvement. This is a time of repentance and rethinking of the values of life.
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Orthodox Christians should strive for solitude and comprehension of the truth. It is hardly wise to combine the passage of such spiritual stages with a magnificent entertainment event. Ceremonies are also not held on Petrov Fast and Assumption Fast. And the day of the Holy Trinity is not intended for performing a ritual. If difficult situations arise, then before making a decision you should additionally talk with the priest.
Popular signs say that you cannot get married on the 13th. Otherwise, the marriage will not be happy, but will bring additional troubles and grief.
Wedding on Wednesday
We've now reached the middle of the week. Mercury rules here. This is an active, cheerful and sociable fellow, a messenger of the gods. It is not for nothing that the substance “mercury”, which has variable properties and high volatility, was named in his honor.
You can expect anything from a marriage concluded on Wednesday. This day is suitable for sociable people who have many friends. In this case, they will not be able to get bored of each other.
Such couples are more friends than lovers. They have a positive and easy approach to life, agree to compromise, prefer to have fun than think about relationships. But gradually, one of the partners will want something more durable and stable. The probability that this will happen to both at once tends to zero.
When is the best time to get married - advice from astrologer Lyudmila Muravyova
Marriages are made in heaven... Life confirms that these are not just beautiful words. Everything has its reasons - people don’t come together by chance, and they don’t diverge either. Recently, many couples have turned to astrologers with questions: “When is the best time to get married?” or “When is the best time to get married?” And this is not without reason.
When is the best time to get married - advice from an astrologer
The correct choice of date for marriage plays a very, very important role in a person’s life, especially in our time, when in almost all countries half or even two-thirds of marriages end in divorce. No wonder the ancient wisdom says: “choose not only a suitable partner, but also a suitable day for the wedding itself.”
And although the date for the wedding is not the key to a happy married life, choosing a good date for the marriage ceremony increases or decreases the chance of creating a successful marriage. The horoscope of the moment of registration affects the future relationship of the spouses. The main criteria for choosing a wedding date are: year, month, day and time of the intended celebration.
When is the best time to get married - choose the year
Modern newlyweds are sure that getting married on a leap year means dooming their marriage to collapse. After all, it has been noted that leap years are quite difficult for many people - conflicts and mortality increase... If we look at history, we can see a completely different picture.
Indeed, once every four years the young people did not disturb the matchmakers, and no festive chaos broke out in the house of the bride’s parents. But this does not mean at all that the lovers could not get married. What is most remarkable is that... girls went to get married. It turns out that leap year was the year of brides who could choose their own groom!
Moreover, a bride could be refused matchmaking only in the most rare cases, but no mention of them has survived. Following the leap year, according to legend, comes the year of widows, which is replaced by the year of widowers. Some associate these beliefs with the terrible times of war, so deeply ingrained in the human consciousness. But the events of antiquity are in the past, let’s not focus on them!
When is the best time to get married - choose a month
From time immemorial, May has been considered the most unfavorable month for a wedding: “Good people do not get married in May,” “Whoever gets married in May will suffer for a century.” But almost no one knows what this sign is connected with. The thing is that May is the month of agricultural work. And the sign came from the villages, where, in principle, all Slavic folklore comes from.
Spring was considered a bad time for weddings. And this was done so that amorous affairs would not interfere with the cultivation of crops. As they say, love comes and goes, but you always want to eat. Therefore, weddings took place after the harvest, mainly in September-October. But you and I live in different times, so we probably shouldn’t blindly follow popular wisdom.
Although, as they say, just in case, it is better to devote the month of May to preparing for the celebration. After all, one way or another, the most suitable time of year for modern married couples is summer: the table can be diversified with all kinds of fruits, and you can celebrate in the open air, and the bride can choose a dress that is light and elegant.
The new Western tradition of honeymoon travel is also best realized under the rays of the warm summer sun. If drops of rain sprinkle the newlyweds on their wedding day, then this is wonderful - the newlyweds will never cry during the entire marriage.
When is the best time to get married - choose a day
Now about the days of the week. Tuesday and Thursday have always been considered unlucky for marriage. Tuesday, a day ruled by the planet of aggression Mars, brings many quarrels and disagreements into the lives of spouses. On the other hand, this couple faces less risk of cooling their relationship than others - indifference in such a marriage is practically impossible - either love or hate.
Thursday's ruler Jupiter sparks constant showdowns on the topic: “Who is the most important in the house?!” Adultery and jealousy are also common in families created on Thursday. Wednesday and Saturday are not the best days. An environment ruled by Mercury establishes somewhat cool, rational relationships.
Although, on the other hand, if the spouses have liberal views on marriage and do not want to restrict each other’s freedoms, this day may not be so bad.
Weddings most often take place on Saturday, but this day will bring happiness only to those who are ready to sacrifice both their personal life and career for the sake of their family. Patronizing Saturn is the planet of self-restraint and self-denial. If you crave intellectual communication, emotional intimacy, the realization of sexual fantasies, don’t sign your name just yet.
If, nevertheless, duty brought you to the Wedding Palace, then only mutual fidelity and the willingness of both spouses to preserve the family hearth at any cost will make the marriage happy. Often, marriages concluded on Saturday are not cloudless, but quite durable. These are often arranged marriages.
Moon Day - Monday - establishes a very subtle emotional connection in the family. Relationships are very difficult, depending on many little things, mood changes, and even weather fluctuations. But it’s impossible to call these spouses indifferent to each other! The best days for a wedding are Friday and Sunday.
Friday is ruled by Venus, the planet of harmony and peace. She has always been considered the patroness of lovers. Sunday - the day of the Sun - is a wonderful day. Everything that begins under the auspices of the Sun brings joy. Your partner will become a source of inspiration for you and will help you achieve everything you dreamed of – in your personal life, in your creativity, and in your career.
When is the best time to get married - choose the moment
There are special periods of time when it is undesirable to get married or have a wedding. First of all, these are the moments when Venus is retrograde, that is, when it moves in the opposite direction across the sky. People who got married at this time may soon fall out of love with each other.
The very fact of this marriage will indicate that they have not yet figured out what exactly they want from the relationship. The marital union will be somewhat like a house of cards - there is no solid foundation, everything is somewhat uncertain, unsteady, changeable... The period of Venus retrograde will last from July 27 to September 8, 2007.
Any astrologer knows that during the retrograde movement of Mercury it makes no sense to start new businesses and projects, or draw up documents. During this period, documents may turn out to be incorrectly completed, various certificates and papers may be lost, delays and various other misunderstandings are common. Whatever happens during Mercury retrograde, the event seems to be devoid of energy.
At this time, there are no contraindications to getting married; you just need to prepare for the fact that confusion will accompany the entire marriage process, and will also leave some imprint on family life. Communication between spouses will subsequently not be as open as we would like. The Mercury retro period will take place in 2007 from February 14 to March 8, from June 16 to July 10, from October 12 to November 2.
When is the best time to get married - Moon in signs
Pay attention to the lunar calendar. It is best to have a wedding on the waxing moon - this guarantees constant interest in each other in the communication of husband and wife. It’s great if the Moon falls into zodiac signs prone to family life and partnership, such as Taurus, Cancer, Libra.
The Moon in Aquarius threatens a young family with the possibility of soon getting tired of each other and going “to the left”; the Moon in Scorpio and Virgo predicts the loss of a spouse under tragic circumstances. The following are considered unfavorable for a wedding: 9th, 12th, 15th, 19th, 20th, 23rd, 29th lunar days. Ideal days for a wedding: 3rd, 6th, 12th, 17th, 24th, 27th. The remaining lunar days are neutral.
A lunar eclipse is another day when you should not get married. Everyone knows the sad story of Princess Diana, who divorced Prince Charles on the day of the eclipse. According to astrological canons, an eclipse clearly symbolizes the dissolution of a marriage.
My friend, Irina, managed to set the day of her wedding precisely on the day of the lunar eclipse. No matter how much I tried to dissuade her, she refused and said that all this was nonsense, folk superstition. On the day of the celebration, troubles began early in the morning. First, the bride accidentally tore her veil. The hole was patched somehow, but the mood was ruined.
Then the car that was taking the newlyweds to the registry office got stuck in a traffic jam and they were late for the wedding ceremony. Right during the ritual of exchanging rings, the groom dropped the bride's ring and they searched for it for several minutes on the floor. The newlyweds were upset to the point of tears, the guests were in a nervous state. And then conflicts began in this young family - with breaking dishes, screaming, swearing and fighting.
Six months later, the marriage broke up... But there was love, there was a good relationship. And there was a sign that the young people ignored. If only they had paid attention to him and postponed the wedding day, maybe everything would have turned out completely differently...
These are the most basic classical rules, but there are many others that only a professional astrologer knows. If you are going to get married and want everything to go at the highest level, then seek an astrological consultation. An astrologer will help you choose the most favorable time for marriage and, perhaps, save you from possible troubles and disappointments.
But most importantly, do not forget that choosing a good date for your wedding celebration is not enough to find happiness in your family life. If the couple are incompatible with each other in the main areas of life, then they will not be able to build a harmonious and joyful relationship, even despite the favorable placement of the planets on a special day.
If the newlyweds are very different people, there will be no agreement in the house. A love relationship can be successful, harmonious and stand the test of time only if a man and a woman have a lot in common, that is, they share each other’s interests, desires and tastes. On the other hand, if they have a lot in common, but do not love each other, then their marriage will not last either.
The formula for a happy marriage is mutual love and harmony in the intellectual, spiritual and sexual spheres. In this case, we can say for sure that the marriage will be successful, no matter what day it is concluded.
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Signs about a wedding on Thursday
After nimble Mercury, Jupiter appears in the sky. He is strict but fair. This is the god of justice. Astrologers recommend him as a patron for the family.
The only significant drawback is that every quarrel will be considered for a long time and scrupulously. This will help you get to the point, but it will be quite exhausting in the process. But in the end, the “e” will be dotted and the problem will disappear into oblivion, and will not pop up with every conflict.
The only opponents of weddings on Thursdays are Orthodox priests. The Church prohibits weddings before Friday. Signs common among the Eastern Slavs support religion in this matter.
On this day, it is advisable to marry people who have strong leadership qualities. They stand firmly on their feet, know the value of their word and are confident in choosing a partner. The decision to start a family is carefully considered, so there is no need to regret it.
Superstitions associated with Friday
Venus, ruling before the weekend, is the goddess of love and passion. Its influence will have a positive impact on strengthening family ties between newlyweds. Paradoxically, the Orthodox Church, Judaism and Islam support ancient mythology in this matter. The peak of weddings occurs at the end of the working week.
Many people are confused by the wedding date - Friday the thirteenth. There are unpleasant legends about her, influencing even minds free from prejudices. According to statistics, in 80% of cases, couples refuse painting, preferring to wait another seven days.
Venus welcomes romantic expressions in marriage. In order for the union to be strong, you sometimes need to arrange nice surprises for your partner. Friday is suitable for those who are ready to sacrifice their ego for the sake of love.
Saturday and Sunday
Dry, emotionally stingy Saturn is not the best satellite for newlyweds. This is the planet of self-sacrifice. Harmony in marriage can be achieved by giving up some of your own aspirations.
Signs say that after the Saturday celebration, spiritual intimacy between partners disappears. You should not expect harmony, conversations about lofty matters, or the composition of poetry. This is a marriage of convenience, with the signing of a contract and payment of a penalty in the event of a breakup. But this approach guarantees the reliability of the union.
Sunday, as you might guess, is a Sunny day. This means that the family hearth will always burn, and the partners will always warm each other. A wedding on Sunday, according to superstition, is a guarantee of harmony and mutual understanding. There will definitely be many children in the family.
The science of stars helps to understand the reasons for what happens in life. But it is better to remember that the key to a happy marriage is love, work and mutual respect. Without them, even Venus and the Sun will not be able to help.
