Classic gifts
A wedding gift from parents to newlyweds should be useful for both spouses and applicable in their life together.
Money. A gift expressed in monetary terms is the most common type of wedding gift for children. However, a number of nuances should be taken into account. Firstly, the amount donated by parents, according to tradition, should be greater than from other guests. It is also better for parents on both sides to discuss the amount of the amount in advance. You can give money not just in an envelope, but come up with a more original presentation.
Appliances . No matter how trivial it may seem, household appliances are extremely necessary for a young family. You can discuss in advance what would be preferable as a wedding gift: a refrigerator, washing machine, TV or dishwasher. As an alternative, there is a gift certificate that will allow young people to choose the desired model themselves.
Furniture. This option is appropriate if a young family already has its own nest where renovations are planned. Then a kitchen set or sofa will be the best gift. A certificate for a furniture salon would also be appropriate; this will allow young people to choose everything according to their taste. And the parents will remain calm that the wedding money will be well spent.
Dishes. This is, of course, the most classic gift option. If you still decide to settle on kitchen utensils, then you need to give only high-quality and expensive sets. Such pots or pans will last for many years and will not cause harm to health.
Gifts for the unborn child .
If a new addition is planned to a young family, you can choose a gift for the future baby from the bride’s parents and the groom’s parents. But such gifts should be given only after first discussing them with the newlyweds and making sure that your gift is appropriate. Large expenses are expected, so a crib or stroller, in which the child will then sleep sweetly, will only please future parents. And it is better not to pay attention to prejudices and superstitions associated with the fact that you cannot buy anything before the birth of a child.
Gifts for the bride
It’s a little easier to congratulate the bride, because there are a few things that are always in use. These are jewelry, 101 roses, furs and other “wants”, which are easy to find out about if you listen to a girl. However, they can also be supplemented in an original way.
Try giving a truckload of helium balloons. When the bride opens the door, they will fly in, and it will be very romantic. No less romantic than letting them out on the street with guests for luck.
- A box with a list of reasons “why I love you” can remind you of the most important day for quite a long time.
- A power of attorney that will allow you to own your heart.
- A picture drawn by an artist or by yourself depicting “your place,” that is, the place where you met or proposed.
- Photo collage of small joint photos.
Videos, souvenirs, photo collages will be an excellent gift for parents and a pleasant surprise from them. Usually, creative gifts are not required from parents, because they are the ones who most often give large sums, pay for honeymoon trips, buy household appliances, furniture, apartments and country houses.
If the parents organized and paid for the wedding, they can choose a more budget-friendly, but very necessary, gift for the newlyweds. We are talking about pots, cutlery and other things that are indispensable in everyday life. This could be bed linen, a fireplace or barbecue for the garden, and if there is no garden, a fireplace or fountain for the home.
It is much easier for friends to choose a gift. You can give almost anything, but the choice depends rather on the budget. Recently, it has become common to combine creative congratulations from friends all at once with small envelopes from each of them. The situation is similar with gifts from friends. And they can share not only creative congratulations, but also material ones, for example, chipping in for a good bracelet or ring for the bride.
The newlyweds themselves at the wedding can congratulate not only each other, parents and godparents, but also please all the guests with small souvenirs. A gift is always a pleasant experience. Give more gifts to each other so that there is even more joy during the holiday!
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Gifts-impressions
In most cases, parents choose what to give their children for a wedding based on their financial capabilities. If finances allow, you can give young people a truly impressive gift.
Keys to an apartment or car . If financial capabilities allow, your own home, cottage or car will be the most desired gift for newlyweds from their parents. Sometimes the parents of the bride and groom team up to make such a purchase. Such a gift will certainly be appreciated.
Honeymoon . If you know the preferences of the newlyweds, you can give a tour that has already been arranged, or negotiate with the tour operator, giving the newlyweds the right to choose. In any case, the romantic trip will be remembered for a long time by the bride and groom as the most original wedding gift.
Concert number . Do you want to surprise young people and complement standard toasts and congratulations with something original? The dance of the newlyweds is traditional at a wedding. An equally memorable and unusual gift will be a dance number performed by parents. You just need to prepare in advance by staging and rehearsing the number with a professional choreographer. If vocal abilities allow, a song performed by mom or dad will be no less touching.
Hotel room . An unusual gift - a room in a luxury hotel for young people. Take care of where the young couple will spend their wedding night. Be sure to order breakfast in your room, but have it delivered closer to lunchtime. The newlyweds will be able to have a good rest, sleep well after the holiday and enjoy each other.
Laser show/fireworks .
Parents can congratulate the newlyweds with a bright laser show or an unforgettable fireworks display. The holiday will be unforgettable.
Ideas for memorable gifts for parents from newlyweds
The bride and groom are key figures in the celebration of their wedding. However, newlyweds should not forget about those who gave each other to them, that is, their precious parents. The tradition of giving souvenirs to parents at a wedding exists in many nations of the world. It symbolizes the immense gratitude of the newlyweds for the fact that their mother and father raised their other half for them.
The optimal fair option is to give identical gifts to the parents of the bride and groom. There are original souvenirs on sale - medals with the inscriptions “Best Dad” or “Best Mom”. If you would like to give a more memorable souvenir, pay attention to an engraved watch or, for example, to an electronic photo frame in which footage from the wedding celebration will flash. To help relatives find common ground faster, some newlyweds give their parents four tickets to a concert or theater.
Gift options for father-in-law and mother-in-law
The bride, before officially entering the groom's family, should prepare offerings for his parents. You don't have to buy expensive things. Presents should be pleasant, symbolic, and, if possible, useful. An excellent option would be modern household appliances, such as a bread maker, multicooker or blender. Future fathers-in-law are given warm duvets, blankets, cutlery, and sets of pots and pans. A wonderful sign of attention will be a set of bath towels, a custom-made portrait of the groom’s parents and their son drawn by the artist.
Gifts according to traditions
What else do parents give to a young family according to tradition?
Gold . Gold jewelry is usually given by a new mother-in-law to her daughter-in-law.
Family values . A family ring, passed down from generation to generation through the female line, or a necklace is usually given by a mother to her daughter on her wedding day.
Silver plate . This is a valuable gift, usually passed down from generation to generation. This is a very successful gift - a gift for centuries.
Family diploma . More often, the bride takes the groom's surname and a gift in the form of a family diploma will be very useful. It describes the history of the origin of the surname and its noble bearers. It is better to present it in a decorated, noble, beautiful baguette.
Family tree or pedigree book . If newlyweds honor their roots and want to know their family history, and also try to maintain connections between all generations, then they will appreciate a valuable gift in the form of a family tree or pedigree book. If you decide to choose this gift option, then you need to take care of it in advance, maybe six months before the wedding, because this is a very labor-intensive process.
What to give to the groom's parents for the wedding?
Usually the bride gives gifts to the groom's parents as a sign that they accept her into their family and pass on their surname to her. Many people give soaps of different shapes and colors to their mothers-in-law at their wedding. But a more personal gift from the bride to the future parent would be handmade items
It is extremely important to guess their interests in order to make an impression.
The most important thing in a gift is not its shape, but a sign of attention to your loved one who came to the wedding
The bride can give her mother-in-law and father-in-law an additional card, which must be included in the envelope along with the invitations. Sincere words written by hand on thick paper will definitely be kept as a keepsake. To be on the safe side, the card is immediately placed in a frame and handed over personally, so that the gift to the groom’s father and mother is memorable.
Another appropriate surprise for parents is to give mother a blanket with sleeves from the groom. This way she will understand that her touches were the most gentle, which can be compared to the best velvet, and she will be grateful for all the warmth.
An original gift from the bride to the groom's parents will help preserve family heirlooms - a photo frame in the shape of a family tree. The variety of such frame art in modern times allows you to choose a gift for every taste. It is advisable that the piece be made of silver, as it emphasizes elegance and is suitable for a wedding.
Photo of a gift to parents at a wedding from the newlyweds
Other gift options for mothers
It is always important for your mothers to make gifts for their wedding themselves, just like in childhood. Today it is fashionable to create jewelry with your own hands. For the mother of the groom or the mother of the bride, such gifts will be more valuable.
Before preparing a gift, your mother-in-law should study their preferences well, and also discuss this with your significant other. In practice, the following gifts are best suited:
- an invitation to a concert of your favorite musician;
- a trip to an interesting place;
- cinema or theater ticket;
- good mirror;
- photoshoot;
- master class of interest to the recipient;
- jewelry;
- tray and teaware in her favorite style;
- fireworks.
Mother at her daughter's wedding
Other gift options for dads
It is difficult, but realistic, to surprise an adult man who has a wife and a child who has tied the knot. Fathers will be delighted to have a good exercise machine delivered to their home, equipment or equipment that can be useful for their favorite hobby. Other gift options:
- tie clip;
- good alcohol;
- beautiful suit;
- matching figurine;
- massager;
- stylish interior items for the office (for example, a clock or a piggy bank for wine corks);
- poker set;
- good wristwatch
- safe.
Can you give money?
Yes, money is always relevant. Especially when your newlyweds are completely independent and organize the wedding on their own. Money is very useful here. If you took an active financial part in preparing the wedding, then you can give a memorable gift. Money can be presented in an envelope or in a beautiful box, you can make a real money tree or a panel of money.
In addition, if the newlyweds managed the wedding expenses on their own, you can take on one of the expenses as a gift. For example, order a car for the newlyweds, decorated with white roses and balloons, prepare champagne in the back seat in satin ribbons, and with it a box of chocolates in the form of euros or dollars. Very romantic and unforgettable.
Original gifts
Custom gold jewelry. It doesn't have to be gold jewelry from your local jewelry store. For a wedding, decorations must be in pairs and with symbolic engravings. Rings, bracelets, pendants - any option will do.
Family handmade. You can make anything with your own hands: a blanket for spouses from scraps, symbolic pillows for two, wall decoration. A handmade gift is always original.
Certificates. There are many options for gift certificates now. Choose based on the interests of young people. Certificate for SPA treatments for two, parachute flight. A certificate, for example, to a hardware store would also be an excellent gift. In the store they will definitely find what to buy to repair their nest.
Portrait. A portrait of the newlyweds in a historical style will be an original and extraordinary gift.
Tropical butterflies . An unusual gift that will remain in the memory of your son and his guests at the wedding. It will create a wonderful mood for both the recipient and everyone present.
As you can see, there are a lot of options for gifts. When choosing a gift for their son’s wedding, mom and dad show special love and care. And you can always feel it. What the gift will be like depends on the financial capabilities and preferences of the son and daughter-in-law. Remember, the main thing on this day is the happy and grateful eyes of both newlyweds.
