Psychics and priests told what to do with the ring after the death of her husband

What should a widow do with an engagement ring?

The tradition of putting rings on each other during marriage exists in almost all cultures; it is followed by many nations and representatives of some world religions, such as Christianity and Judaism. In our country, married men and married women wear jewelry on the ring finger of the right hand, and in America and Europe, for example, on the left hand.

At the same time, there are no traditions or laws that oblige a widowed person to leave a wedding ring on his finger in any religion. With the death of one of the spouses, the marital relationship between them automatically ceases to exist; the widow or widower does not bear any obligations to the deceased and is free to remarry as many times as desired: in most countries this right is enshrined at the legislative level.

However, some people, after the death of their spouse, leave a wedding ring on their finger, remaining faithful to the deceased. They do this solely for personal reasons: they wear the jewelry as a reminder of a happy marriage or as a sign of eternal love and devotion to a deceased lover. In some cases, widows and widowers wearing a wedding ring on their finger indicate that they do not intend to ever marry again.

Be that as it may, a widowed woman can deal with decoration in several ways:

• remove it from your finger and put it at home in a secluded place: for example, next to an icon;
• give as a gift to those in need or donate to the church;
• melt down and also give as a gift;
• use jewelry as a protective amulet;
• continue to wear it on your finger as a sign of fidelity to your deceased spouse.

Important! It is strictly forbidden to place your ring in the coffin of the deceased - this is a very bad omen: it is believed that by giving the jewelry to the deceased, a woman shares her life energy, thereby hastening her own death.

Decorations of the deceased: is it possible to wear such an inheritance?

Sometimes jewelry is passed down to us by inheritance. On the one hand, a person is practical, but on the other hand, one can understand those who do not dare to wear the things of a deceased relative. And the main question is how dangerous the deceased’s things are.

Church view

If we talk about jewelry associated with paganism, all kinds of talismans and amulets, signs of another faith, then wearing them means betraying your own faith. Everything else, such as gold rings, watches and clothes, is quite suitable for wearing by living relatives.

You can even help the deceased get into the gates of Heaven if you do the right thing with his things. We devoted a separate article to this problem.

The second limitation, which may be involved in the psychology and personal relationships of people: after all, a thing can remind of tragic events or of the deceased himself, which actually causes sad emotions in a person. Don't make yourself sad again. If the decoration does not carry a sacred meaning, then it can be used, or it can be given as charity.

The view of esotericists

From the point of view of people involved in the occult, wearing jewelry that was worn by a person who died or died a natural death is strictly prohibited for simple reasons. An item may carry negative energy, especially if it is associated with tragic events or illness.

This applies not only to the jewelry of the deceased person, but also to all used items. If the item is positively charged, for example, associated with a rich wedding and a happy marriage, it can help a young couple create a strong family and make love bonds unbreakable. But the thing with which a person was at the cemetery can lead to sad events, because it is saturated with the pain and suffering of the family about the deceased.

Speaking about the things of the deceased, we note that they very often strive for their deceased owner and do not want to be with another owner. Because of this, the decorations of the deceased can bring serious illness, trouble and, in some cases, even death to his heirs. At the same time, by giving away an item, you can also lose some of your energy, as clairvoyants say. You can learn more about the power and energy of things.

In fact, each person chooses for himself whether to use the things of the deceased or not. It all depends on what you personally believe in and how comfortable you feel with this thing. In both cases, the inheritance can be kept as a memory of a relative or loved one, rather than used, and there will be no negative consequences. Or, if you are very worried about the negative energy of your jewelry, clean it.

Rite of purification

It is enough to wash the clothes, and then all the negative will go away. It is advisable to initially soak it in salt water. Or, if you don't intend to use these items, burn them if possible. Usually, wardrobe items remain with the deceased and are not used by the heirs.

Jewelry and decorations must be wiped with water. Water has the strongest cleansing properties. By doing this in the light of a candle flame, you will strengthen the cleansing ritual, since the flame can burn out all energetic negativity.

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Where is a widow's ring worn?

A widowed woman can keep not only her wedding jewelry, but also wear the pair that belonged to her deceased husband on her hand. According to beliefs, this will become a powerful magical talisman for a widow in protecting her from the effects of dark spells, as well as in warding off the evil eye and damage from a widowed woman. In addition, by wearing her husband's ring on her finger, the widow is believed to be able to meet the deceased in a dream and communicate with him.

A woman is advised to put the wedding ring that belonged to her deceased husband on the finger of her left hand; she can also wear it on a chain around her neck or with her in a bag or pocket.

After the death of her husband, a widowed lady, as a rule, begins to wear her own jewelry on her left hand. It is considered acceptable to leave a piece of jewelry on the ring finger of the right hand, but it should be taken into account that such wearing may mislead those around you.

Folk signs

From time immemorial, people all over the world have exchanged rings when starting their family life. Over the centuries, many signs associated with this custom have accumulated.

The exchange of wedding rings is an important attribute of a wedding, filled with a sacred symbol. Even the most convinced skeptics are sensitive to his choice. And not in vain, because these jewelry should go with a married couple throughout their entire life, protecting them from adversity and protecting them from grief.

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How to wear a wedding ring for a widow

For a widowed woman, there are several options for wearing wedding jewelry - hers and that of her deceased spouse:

• If the widow decides to keep only one (personal) piece of jewelry, she can continue to wear it on the ring finger of her right hand or move it to the finger of her left hand;
• It is permissible to wear both jewelry at the same time—yours and that of your deceased spouse. In this case, it is recommended to place them like this: your own - on the finger of the right hand, and that belonging to the husband - on the left;
• In some cases, a widowed woman can leave both rings on one hand (right or left): her own - on the ring finger, the spouse - also on the ring finger or on the middle or large one, which is extremely rare;
• Wedding jewelry can be worn not on the hand, but on a chain or on the neck. Some widows put their own ring on their left hand, and what belonged to the spouse who passed on to the other world is placed on a chain, always hidden under clothing;
• If a woman does not want or cannot, for one reason or another, put the jewelry on her finger, she can place it in her purse or clothing pocket.

Advice! If you want to wear a piece of jewelry around your neck, but don’t have a suitable chain, you can use a satin ribbon. It should be neutral, muted shades (it is allowed to take black or white).

What wedding rings should be like, according to signs

According to legend, wedding rings should be smoothly polished so that family life can be smooth. If the products are decorated with precious stones, this means that the young family will live in prosperity and prosperity.

You can take family wedding rings for your wedding if its previous owners were happy in their marriage, but if it was not very successful, then these rings will carry bad energy and it is better not to use them.

According to signs, it is better to have a wedding on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday, then the young family will have a long and happy life. It is better not to get married on Monday, which promises discord in family life. But this can be avoided if the couple gets married in a church.

The lucky dates for a wedding ceremony in the calendar are the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th and 9th, and in general these are lucky numbers. According to legend, the groom should buy the wedding rings. It is believed that wedding rings seal the destinies of two lovers, and before the wedding in the church they were consecrated so that they would serve as a strong amulet for the young couple.

Signs and superstitions

There are many different beliefs and signs associated with wedding rings, and they can often contradict and refute each other. This phenomenon can be explained as follows. Jewelry and jewelry (including wedding jewelry) can influence the fate of the people wearing them in various ways, as well as absorb energy - positive or negative.

Exactly how a wedding ring will affect the person wearing it depends on several factors: what kind of marriage it was, whether the spouses in it were happy, whether they were faithful to each other and, finally, under what circumstances the spouse passed away.

It is not recommended for a widow to wear the ring of a husband who died an unnatural or even violent death under any circumstances. It is believed that such jewelry is imbued with negative, disastrous energy and can bring a lot of misfortune to the one who wears it, as well as cause serious health problems, and also ward off good luck and happy life events from the widow.

In this case, a widowed woman, if she definitely wants to leave her husband’s jewelry, is recommended to do the following: take the ring to church and ask the clergyman to read a prayer over it. During a visit to the temple, it would be useful to light a candle for the repose of the soul of the deceased spouse.

Advice! If you cannot visit church for one reason or another, you can simply dip the wedding ring of your deceased husband in blessed water in order to get rid of the negative energy contained in it and make it safe and suitable for wearing.

If the spouse passed away due to natural causes, and his death was not violent or sudden, then it is considered that leaving the spouse’s wedding ring is completely safe for the widow. On the contrary, according to ancient beliefs, wearing jewelry protects a widowed woman from adversity and makes her immune to black magic.

If a widow wearing her husband's ring sees the deceased appear in her dreams, this is a very good sign, which means that the spirit of her lover is watching over his wife from heaven and protecting her from various misfortunes and troubles. In other words, he plays the role of a woman’s guardian angel.

But if family relationships were far from ideal and were replete with frequent quarrels, scandals, or even trips to the left, it is not recommended to leave an engagement jewelry to a widowed woman (most likely, she herself will not want to do this). There is a risk that the spirit of an unloved husband will haunt his ex-wife and in every possible way prevent her from living a peaceful life. In this case, the deceased spouse’s ring should be sold or melted down, and the proceeds should be donated to the church or distributed to the poor as alms.

If you believe the signs, for a widow to lose a wedding ring - hers or that of her deceased spouse - is considered not a very good omen, which will be a signal that something is bothering the late husband or that he is angry with his ex-wife. A widow who has lost her jewelry is recommended to go to church and light a candle for the deceased.

FUNERAL RULES

Everything about funerals: funeral rituals and rules, important signs, warnings and prohibitions.

I constantly receive letters and calls with questions touching on the topic of funerals and requests for explanations of certain funeral signs and rules.

In particular, I wrote that the clothes of the deceased cannot be worn by his relatives, they must be distributed or thrown away. But when should this be done? I answer: the clothes of the deceased are taken out of the house no earlier than 40 days after his death.

Another question: is it necessary to leave a wedding ring on the deceased’s finger? Under no circumstances should a person be buried in a wedding ring! Along the way, I will explain what, in general, there are requirements for the clothing in which the deceased is dressed. On the day of the funeral, the deceased is dressed in new or completely clean (washed) clothes. It happens that a person has prepared funeral clothes for himself during his lifetime. In this case, you need to make sure that these clothes are clean and have not been previously used. It is customary to bury a person in clothing appropriate to the season and weather. Shoes should be with a back, soft and presentable.

But here is one of those questions that I have been asked more than once: “My dear aunt died of cancer. At the funeral, I kissed her on the forehead through the aureole. Was this a big mistake? I remind you of the essence of one of the most important funeral rules: if a person died from a cancerous tumor, and there is a suspicion that the cause of the disease and death was damage to cancer, blood relatives cannot kiss him, otherwise the cancer disease may “skip”. In this case, oncological problems appear within the first year after the funeral, which means that the person who made the mistake needs urgent professional help. But the corolla located on the forehead of the deceased serves as a kind of barrier that should protect relatives from harm. So, I hope the author of the question is not in danger.

I was recently asked: “Is it true that if a person gets drunk at a funeral, this is a bad omen? How does this threaten a person? It’s true that if someone gets very drunk at a funeral, there will probably be heavy drinkers in his family.

Next question from the letter: “When my mother-in-law was dying, she held my mother’s hand and whispered something. After this event, my relationship with my mother completely went wrong. I constantly felt some kind of coldness emanating from her. Mom died ten years later. And then, and now, I completely give up when I need to work. “Here, most likely, we are not talking about the transfer of a magical gift passing to a person who holds the hand of a dying witch. There is also such a witchcraft phenomenon as a dying curse. This curse is produced in exactly the same way as described above. This is a rather strong type of witchcraft negativity, which can only be eliminated by an experienced and qualified specialist.

I have repeatedly warned my readers that a pregnant woman should not visit cemeteries or attend funerals. But is it still possible for her to do something if she can’t help but go to the funeral? In this case, the pregnant woman's belly is bandaged with a red ribbon. Here, by the way, is a question on a related topic: “When I was pregnant, my husband’s father died. I accompanied my husband to the funeral, but did not go to the cemetery, I stayed in the car. Could this event have harmed my child? Since you haven't entered the cemetery, you have nothing to fear.

Another appeal: “I already received treatment from you a couple of years ago, and you helped me a lot then. But recently I buried my brother, and since then everything inside me began to hurt. Many of my late brother’s ailments seemed to become my ailments. Why could this be? There are two versions here. Perhaps you made some mistakes at the funeral that led you to your current state. But it is possible that your problems are of psychosomatic origin, that is, they are the result of stress. If you tried to imagine how your brother felt during his illness and “tried on” his illnesses for yourself, you could unwittingly program your body for the same negative processes. In any case, I recommend that you visit me in person.

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“Unfortunately, only now have I learned about many of the mistakes we made at the funeral. It turned out that my husband, his brother and sister of the late father-in-law were sitting in the car on the chairs on which the coffin was placed. We did not turn these chairs over to the ground or wipe them with holy water. And at home, of course, we all sat on them. So what's now?" Those chairs need to be taken outside, turned upside down and left in that position for several hours. Then wipe them with Epiphany water. Everyone who managed to sit on these chairs must undergo a reprimand using special witchcraft spells. Otherwise, diseases of the legs and genitourinary system are inevitable.

“If a deceased person is wearing a tie and buttons on his shirt and jacket, what could this mean for relatives?” The soul of the deceased experiences certain inconveniences, which is fraught with nightmares, health and nervous system disorders for his relatives.

“Can I take some black soil from my yard to plant flowers on the grave?” Sure you can. It is important to understand the general logic of magical regulations regarding cemeteries. To care for the grave and the surrounding area, you can use any things and tools taken from your home: shovels, paints, brushes, flower seedlings, soil, etc. These things can then be returned back, just do not forget to shake off the grave soil and wash all used tools in running water. But you should not use things that were previously items of clothing in the cemetery as rags. But from the cemetery it is forbidden to take home elements of fencing, monuments and other objects, as well as flowers and berries saturated with dead cemetery energy.

“Is it possible to take away the iron monument from the cemetery, since we will erect a new one - granite? Maybe there are some specific rituals that need to be performed before taking the old monument home (we live in a private house)?” My recommendations for this situation are outlined in the response to the previous letter. I strongly advise against taking the old monument home from the cemetery. Leave it somewhere in the cemetery or nearby. This is not such a valuable thing for the household!

“Some time ago, my relative committed suicide. Before that, he had repeatedly threatened suicide, so on the fateful day we did not take his words seriously. Feeling guilty towards him, I wrote him a note of apology and placed it in his coffin. Did I cause myself any harm by this action? I recently dreamed about this man. It’s like I’m hugging him and asking him to come back, but he’s pushing me away. “I don’t think you did anything fraught with negative consequences by leaving an apology note in the coffin. Very bad consequences await those people who give their clothes to the deceased or, even worse, leave their photographs in the coffin “as a keepsake.” Be sure to read my article: “PHOTO IN THE COFFIN.” The wives of deceased husbands make a sure spell for loneliness when they leave their wedding ring to the deceased and swear to him that they will never marry again. And the fact that the deceased pushed you away in a dream is good. It would be worse if he led you along.

The following situation is quite common: “We bought scarves and towels for the funeral, but these things were never needed. Can I use them now? In no case! Anything specifically purchased or set aside for a funeral may be used exclusively for the funeral. If things are never needed, they must be burned.

I will also comment on this letter: “When I buried my mother, I was advised to stand on a towel so that my legs would not hurt. So I did. But since then my legs have been bothering me all the time...” In order to get rid of leg diseases, they really do stand on a funeral towel, but at the same time it is necessary to say a special spell. If you don’t do this, you will not only not get rid of leg diseases, but, on the contrary, you will acquire them. Now seek professional help.

“You wrote that during a funeral, relatives should not get out of the car in front of the coffin. Does it matter that we entered the cemetery through one door and carried the coffin out through other doors? We left before the coffin was taken out. And we left the coins that were in front of the deceased in the coffin on the advice of the priest. Did we do the right thing? The funeral rule discussed in the question should be understood quite clearly: the relatives of the deceased should not get out of the car into the cemetery in front of the coffin. If people left through one door and carried the coffin out through another, then the sequence of actions does not matter. Coins that were in front of the deceased can indeed be left in the coffin. By the way, such coins have a wide range of applications in practical magic (for example, when casting spells on eye diseases and even to tame jealousy). But do not throw coins taken directly from your pocket or purse into a coffin or grave.

I often get asked what to do with the gold jewelry that the deceased was wearing at the time of his death? And can a widow wear her late husband's wedding ring? Any gold jewelry (including wedding rings) that the deceased person was wearing at the time of his death must be left in a vessel with holy water for a day, which provides, so to speak, “energy zeroing.” Then you can use them. Jewelry that belonged to the deceased, which was not on him at the time of death, does not require such manipulations.

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“In your book it is written: “A person who returns to the house after removing the body and before returning from the cemetery may die.” Is this the same situation when the coffin is on the street and a person returns to the house to check whether they took everything with them to the cemetery? Is it possible to take independent measures to neutralize the consequences of an error if it has occurred?” Yes, this is a fairly common situation, as a result of which a person who returns to the house after the coffin has been removed from it before the funeral procedure experiences serious health problems. Independent measures in such cases do not make any sense; a reprimand with special spells performed by a professional specialist is necessary.

Once they asked me: is it permissible to celebrate a wake a little earlier than the fortieth day? I strongly do not recommend doing this. The tradition of celebrating a funeral precisely on the fortieth day after death did not arise out of nowhere. Until the fortieth day, the soul of the deceased is still quite close to its relatives and places familiar to it. And on the fortieth day there is a kind of farewell to its earthly relatives, and the soul rises to higher spheres. Due to these circumstances, a premature farewell to the soul of the deceased will be perceived very negatively by it.

Another question on the funeral theme: “You wrote that after removing a deceased person from the house, it is necessary to wash the floor. What to do if the floors in the apartment are covered with carpet that cannot be removed?” This time I will not limit myself to a short answer, but will try to give a detailed and thorough explanation of this situation, so that the logic of the mentioned rule with washing the floors in the house after removing the body of the deceased is clear to readers. I hope that this approach will remove many related and additional questions. So, the magical rule requires that no cleaning be carried out in the house where the coffin with the body of the deceased is located. Otherwise, there is a risk that another resident may be “swept out” or “washed” out of this house. Since at this time friends and relatives come to this house or apartment to say goodbye to the deceased and express condolences to his family members, carpets are usually removed from the floors. After removing the body from the room, the floors in it are immediately washed by one of the relatively strangers (for example, a neighbor). This is done in order to “wash the dead spirit from the home.” But the point is not that the floors must necessarily be washed with water (although this is the recommended procedure). If the floors are covered with carpet that has not been removed, it is simply swept or vacuumed. In any case, cleaning is done from the far corners towards the front door. The water used for cleaning can be poured into the toilet (unlike the water used to wash the deceased - it is poured onto the street under any non-fruiting tree outside the yard). Then the person doing the cleaning closes the front door behind him and leaves.

Consider the following situation: “I am turning to you for advice. Once I wrote to you about my sister’s illness, you invited us to your reception. Thank you for the invitation, but we were late for the visit, my sister died. The diagnosis could not be established. Now about the main thing. After her death, no one has peace; she is always present in the house and calls everyone to her. No, this is not self-hypnosis! Suddenly, the chandeliers suddenly begin to swing (we live on the 9th floor, transport cannot influence), and then her voice begins to call her daughter. Or some cloud appears for a moment and immediately becomes cold, although the room is hot. Sometimes the furniture starts to move on its own. After my sister’s death, we renovated her room, now the wallpaper has fallen off, the corners are all wet, and at night there is rumble, creaking, and footsteps. The daughter of the deceased was already in the hospital with a nervous breakdown, she had quarrels with her husband and our mother was in tears all the time. We ask mom what’s wrong, she replies that the tears are choking her, and her daughter calls her to her. Vladimir Petrovich, what should I do? We already went to church, lit candles, asked the priest to pray, explained the situation to him, but nothing helps. Our only hope is in you!” If the phenomena indicated here occur within forty days from the moment of death of the deceased, you just need to wait, since after the fortieth day such phenomena most often disappear on their own. But if forty days have already passed, and manifestations of activity on the part of the soul of the deceased person continue, then it is necessary to take special measures. First of all, remove all personal belongings of the deceased from the house, distribute them to strangers or throw them away. A specific method for solving this problem is as follows: set fire to any hat that previously belonged to the deceased, and walk around the apartment with the burning hat, fumigate the home with smoke, then leave the house with the burning hat and let the hat burn out on the street. The described method works well. Invite a priest to the apartment, but preferably a specialist in the field of magical manipulation to carry out cleansing rituals. Since I am constantly invited to carry out work related to the elimination of negative energy in the home, I warn you that I provide such services only within the Kyiv and neighboring regions. I noticed that the letter mentioned the fact that renovations were being carried out in the deceased’s room. The owners of the apartment made a big mistake! During the first forty days after the death of a person, you should not even move furniture in his home, creating a different interior. And repairs can be done no earlier than a year after the person’s death. If you started renovations earlier, especially in the deceased’s room, this could cause unpleasant activity on the part of the soul of the deceased person in your apartment.

Finally, an important warning. If any funeral rules set out in this article and in the articles linked to below were violated, urgent measures must be taken. Urgent! Otherwise, negative consequences will not keep you waiting, which is confirmed by the sad experience of millions (I am not exaggerating - exactly, millions!) of people. Some funeral mistakes are so serious and fatal that they risk another imminent death in the family. What exactly needs to be done? Any attempts to fix the problem yourself are a completely pointless waste of precious time. Immediately seek help from a professional specialist who knows exactly what needs to be done and knows how to do it correctly! I am not at all trying to force my services on you; you have the right to independently find a specialist who you can trust to solve your problems. But most importantly, don’t waste time! If you come to the decision that you need to turn to me for help, click on the button at the bottom of the page and write a letter. Right now.

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Informed decision

It is psychologically difficult for a widow to immediately make a decision about engagement rings. She is bombarded by the advice of relatives, the opinion of society, religious canons and norms. Only lastly does a woman listen to her own feelings. But conflicting opinions sometimes prevent a lady from making a decision.

In the case of an engagement ring, there are no accepted standards and no right decision that is acceptable to every person. For some, it is important to observe religious dogma, for others, public morality is important, and another lady cannot imagine her life without signs of fidelity to her late spouse. Therefore, every widow has the right to choose, and no one can condemn her if she refuses to wear wedding rings at all.

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You cannot envy a woman who has to decide what to do with her engagement ring after the death of her husband: this is a deep tragedy that is not easy to cope with. However, even such a trifle requires attention - especially since in some aspects its quite serious significance is revealed. We have collected several opinions and advice on this matter, and whether you listen to them or not is entirely up to you.

Religious issues

A ring on the left ring finger of women does not contradict the Christian religion. Faith helps cope with grief, so if a widow decides not to remove her jewelry, the church will support her.

Religion does not approve of the belief that rings left at home cast an aura of eternal loneliness, so you can do with them at your own discretion.

However, religious canons encourage mercy. Therefore, donating jewelry to hospitals, orphanages or for the needs of the church will be the best solution for believers.

How to clean jewelry?

Other people's jewelry can only be worn after cleaning. Energy therapists advise cleaning any jewelry, even one given as a gift or purchased in a store. Why is this procedure necessary for new products? The gift may not be made from the heart, but the ring from the store has been tried on by many people with different thoughts and feelings before you. Having cleaned the jewelry, you can wear it without fear and fill it only with your positive energy.

It is enough to hold the new product under running water for a few minutes. Other people's things require more thorough and lengthy cleaning. The decoration is placed in water for 3 days, in fine salt for 3 days and on the windowsill for 3 days. You can bless the jewelry you find in a church or hold it in consecrated water.

Why is it better to wear a bracelet or rings on your right hand at first? Because this way the jewelry will be filled with your energy faster. Gemstones can be cleansed with herbs, moonlight or fumigation.

People who have lost a spouse have to make a balanced and thoughtful decision about their wedding ring. However, the psycho-emotional state after the loss of a loved one, signs, superstitions, and hints from relatives are always contradictory and can cause confusion, preventing the mind from settling on one of the options. What to do with the engagement ring after the funeral?

Some people keep the rings for themselves. If a cremation service is arranged, the rings and jewelry of the deceased will in any case be given to the relatives. When burial with a coffin, some leave a ring on the deceased. Others prefer to give it as alms to the church. Whatever the decision about the engagement ring, everyone acts in accordance with their ideas.

Interesting things about rings

Related article Why wedding rings are worn on the ring finger In hot weather, you involuntarily drink more fluids than you should. Therefore, it is not surprising when you wake up in the morning and notice that your favorite wedding ring is literally stuck into your finger, causing pain. What can be done in this case? You will need

• - diuretic;
• - salt;
• - sewing needle;
• - silk thread.

Instructions 1 First, you need to get rid of the swelling. Simple diuretics will help here, in extreme cases - watermelon. This method is suitable when the finger has not yet turned red, but time is of the essence. 2 Secondly, you can make a saline solution by throwing a few tablespoons of table salt into cold water.

It denotes different aspirations and character traits when worn on a specific finger. The ring on the index finger is a symbol of power. A ring on a large one is considered a sign of solidity in all areas of life.

Creative and original people prefer to decorate the little finger. The ring finger symbolizes the love side of life, and the middle finger shows the desire to stand out. If there are rings on all fingers, a person can try to show his versatility and versatility.

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When a person dies, relatives sometimes offer his clothes to other people. It seems that there is nothing reprehensible here, because sometimes in such cases quite decent things remain in very good condition, which the family of the deceased has absolutely no need for, but may be useful to others. Place your hand in this bath for 5 - 10 minutes, then lubricate your finger with liquid soap or sunflower oil, Vaseline (whatever you have on hand) and carefully, in a circular motion, try to remove the ring. You can ask family members or your beloved husband to participate in the operation to save your finger in order to hold the skin of the finger, which is trying to gather in front of the phalanx into an accordion. 3 Thirdly, there is a proven method that gives an almost one hundred percent guarantee of success. But to implement it, you really need an assistant. Take a needle and thread a prepared silk thread about 1 meter long into it. Instead of silk thread, you can use iris or thread with lavsan. Ask an assistant to carefully thread the needle and thread between your finger and the ring, eye first. Pull the thread from the eye of the needle and pull its end towards the base of the finger. The needle can be removed.

The ring on the ring finger of the right hand symbolizes the couple's marital relationship. It shows others that people have sworn allegiance to each other and want to stay together until the end of their days. But tragic moments happen in life, and a woman, even after the death of her husband, wants to preserve his memory. Which finger does the widow wear the ring on is a logical question in this case.

What psychics say

Esotericists and parapsychologists see the wedding ring of a deceased husband as a kind of talisman that, always being next to you, protects you from dark forces and brings good luck in bright endeavors.

Vladimir, 46 years old, Moscow, magician:

-The psycho-emotional state of widows is very precarious; I do not recommend that you remove the ring in the very first days after the death of your spouse. It is best to do this on the ninth day. Until that time, it will serve as your support, a kind of object through which an energetic connection will be made with the departed person.

However, there is one small but very important nuance in this matter: if your relationship with your husband frankly did not go well, and quarrels with insults, curses and threats were frequent, then it is best to melt the ring or perform a salt cleansing ritual over it. This is especially true if, after the death of the husband, the inheritance has to be divided between children and conflicts are possible.

1. immerse the ring in salt;
2. leave for a day;
3. without touching the salt crystals, pick it up with a pen or any auxiliary object;
4. Used salt should be taken out of the house immediately.

After this, the wedding ring can be kept at home or melted down - depending on the situation.